"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need advice on this situation (setting up a date)

Shivastorm_88

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Hb8 in my class, got her number, we were supposed to play Tennis tonight, here is what happened:

Yesterday I was looking at the weather forecast and the weather was announcing to be ****ty, so I called her to reschedule, she didn't answer. I went out roller-blading, she called me back while I was out, I didn't hear so didn't answer, when I saw she called I called her back again, no answer so I texted her saying that it was going to rain saturday night so we'd have to reschedule for either Yesterday night or Sunday night because I was busy the rest of the time.

She texted me back this morning saying that she couldn't because of work and blahblah, and said she couldn't play tonight because of work (I think she's just dumb because she obviously didn't read my text right).

Now I have two possible options for this situation, either I try to call her back tonight after supper to try to set up something else, either tennis on sunday night or simply another date, or just say crap that for now and re-set something with her on Tuesday and act like this ordeal never happened... Your suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Shivastorm_88 said:
just say crap that for now and re-set something with her on Tuesday and act like this ordeal never happened... Your suggestions?
This. Glad to see another tennis player here!
 
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