"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Need advice on this situation (setting up a date)

Shivastorm_88

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Hb8 in my class, got her number, we were supposed to play Tennis tonight, here is what happened:

Yesterday I was looking at the weather forecast and the weather was announcing to be ****ty, so I called her to reschedule, she didn't answer. I went out roller-blading, she called me back while I was out, I didn't hear so didn't answer, when I saw she called I called her back again, no answer so I texted her saying that it was going to rain saturday night so we'd have to reschedule for either Yesterday night or Sunday night because I was busy the rest of the time.

She texted me back this morning saying that she couldn't because of work and blahblah, and said she couldn't play tonight because of work (I think she's just dumb because she obviously didn't read my text right).

Now I have two possible options for this situation, either I try to call her back tonight after supper to try to set up something else, either tennis on sunday night or simply another date, or just say crap that for now and re-set something with her on Tuesday and act like this ordeal never happened... Your suggestions?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ARrocket

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Shivastorm_88 said:
just say crap that for now and re-set something with her on Tuesday and act like this ordeal never happened... Your suggestions?
This. Glad to see another tennis player here!
 
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