First off I would like to thank everyone on this site, including the founders. Without it I would still be an AFC. Also, I would ask that those who do not have experience with FWB's stay off this thread, unless you seriously know what your talking about.
Ok. Finally I hooked a girl up on being a fvck buddy. I tried it last September only to cave and let the girl become my GF. Things of course weren't the way I wanted and I dumped her.
So THIS time I have been calling all the shots. A little background on me and my newfound fvckbuddy:
I've known her maybe 2 months. Wasn't entirely gaming her at first. Started off I just talked to her occasionally, until we went on a school trip together. When we were headed back to campus we really talked for about an hour. Next, since she lives close to me I drove her home cause she left her car a t a friends. So anyways, I played it cool, and slow. I could tell she was interested, since I started getting myspace messages and such over the 'net.
So I decided to get the # and invite her over to a friends for drinking and Xbox Live. She's a cool chick, came over, and we ended up making out on the couch that night. Before things got out of control I told her I didn't want it to get too far the first night (which turned to be the RIGHT move), since I didnt want her to regret anything. Also, I CLEARLY pointed out to her that neither of us (for reasons I wont go into) were in the position for a real relationship...so it would mostly be physical. Bingo, she agreed to it. We slept together that night (no fvcking). The next night I invited her over again to drink and party...and that night we ended up screwing our brains out. Thing is, we both agree that this is NOT a bf/gf relationship, even though we're catching lunch together..and tonight I'm going to a movie with her. I really like her and wouldn't mind her being my gf...except we just arent in the situation to be exclusive bf/gf...plus theres a girl in biology im talking to, so....
Now that I've outlined the situation...is there any advice I can get from you guys to help make sure this FWB relationship doesnt end too soon?
Also, heres some other questions I want to ask to see if others' relationships match the nature of mine:
How long into knowing/talking to her did it (f-close) occur?
How long did the relationship last?
What WAS your relationship with the other person?
What were the main themes or topics of your conversations?
What rules would you say were most important in the situation?
Thanks in advance!
Ok. Finally I hooked a girl up on being a fvck buddy. I tried it last September only to cave and let the girl become my GF. Things of course weren't the way I wanted and I dumped her.
So THIS time I have been calling all the shots. A little background on me and my newfound fvckbuddy:
I've known her maybe 2 months. Wasn't entirely gaming her at first. Started off I just talked to her occasionally, until we went on a school trip together. When we were headed back to campus we really talked for about an hour. Next, since she lives close to me I drove her home cause she left her car a t a friends. So anyways, I played it cool, and slow. I could tell she was interested, since I started getting myspace messages and such over the 'net.
So I decided to get the # and invite her over to a friends for drinking and Xbox Live. She's a cool chick, came over, and we ended up making out on the couch that night. Before things got out of control I told her I didn't want it to get too far the first night (which turned to be the RIGHT move), since I didnt want her to regret anything. Also, I CLEARLY pointed out to her that neither of us (for reasons I wont go into) were in the position for a real relationship...so it would mostly be physical. Bingo, she agreed to it. We slept together that night (no fvcking). The next night I invited her over again to drink and party...and that night we ended up screwing our brains out. Thing is, we both agree that this is NOT a bf/gf relationship, even though we're catching lunch together..and tonight I'm going to a movie with her. I really like her and wouldn't mind her being my gf...except we just arent in the situation to be exclusive bf/gf...plus theres a girl in biology im talking to, so....
Now that I've outlined the situation...is there any advice I can get from you guys to help make sure this FWB relationship doesnt end too soon?
Also, heres some other questions I want to ask to see if others' relationships match the nature of mine:
How long into knowing/talking to her did it (f-close) occur?
How long did the relationship last?
What WAS your relationship with the other person?
What were the main themes or topics of your conversations?
What rules would you say were most important in the situation?
Thanks in advance!