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need advice on sending an email

Apollo

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Ok, basically I'm a dumbass. A few days ago I went to a store, bought some stuff and talked to the sales girl for 15-20 minutes (we were laughing/joking around). I would have gotten the number if I would have asked but I was there after a long day at work and wasn't thinking. I am still kicking myself for not asking :mad:

She attached her business card to the receipt with her business email address on it and I'm thinking of emailing her but need some things to fire in there. I've got 4 lines so far and need some bull**** filler.

Any advice is appreciated. I'd like to go back to the store but won't be able to for at least a week (and she might not even be working) or else I'd just go back and ask her out.

edit: for some help, one of the things we talked about was how I lived a little out side of the city and how I might move there in the near future.
 

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Black_Italian

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Dont send and email its destined to end badly. Go back to the store and talk to her again and get the god damn number this time.

REMEMBER DONT EMAIL HER.

Just incase you are a idiot and you still want to email then say something like this.

Hey this is Apollo we were talking the other day at the store. You should give me a call sometime (insert your number)

Keep it short man you dont have to write her a novel.
 
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