"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hello everyone. Yet again with another adventure of this AFC. I know I need to moved on, I wanted some advice on how I may have done this differently so I can learn from it.

So I went to this place to get yogurt, and I am standing there in line looking bored. I look up and I see the girl at the counter staring at me with a huge smile--- not even looking at the costumers she is helping. So I decide to figure out if I am imagining things by walking up to her and looking directly at her smiling and seeing if she would not look away. She seemed pretty cool with it and smiled even more--we basically stared at each other the whole time she was helping me.

So today (tuesday) I go the yogurt place and she gives me a huge smile. As I am deciding what I want, she comes up to me and asks if I want some samples, but I swear she is giving some crazy flirty look. Also she does not ask anyone else if they want samples. So I go up to the counter (there is one guy costumer next to me) and I look into her eyes-- she isn't phased ---so I ask her if she wants to get some coffee. ok I said the coffee thing a bit soft, because I did not want to embarass her. She ask me what did I say smiling. I said it again it bit more audible. She tells me smoothly with the smile and looking to the right, "that seems inappropriate"(her tone is a bit playful), while handing my receipt and still smiling at my ass!

So was I imagining things, if not what could I have done better.

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AFC.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Next time this situation occurs look at her, smile, and with kind of a smirk say,

"You're totally trying to seduce me with____, aren't you?. It's ok, there's something about____ store girls... hmm, maybe I'm cursed that way....but in a good way, I guess."

Or this one is fun too. Watch her cues though, gotta have a fun vibe.

"Do you have an identical twin that works here?...Seriosuly, do you sisters ever trade shifts without the other knowing?...how sneaky! How can I even know which one I'm talking to? Oh well, I think you're the better looking one." ;)

Turn it around on her.

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so I need to open with a ****y funny situation?
 
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But you already said 'a year' so you are past the opener. A ****y/funny attitude is a good way to approach a girl in this situation. Depending on your rapport, she must be giving IOI's to you in return.

Why this girl in particular though?
 
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