"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Need advice on night game

parkthebus

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So going to a bar or two for the first time with the intention of pulling, with a buddy of mine. Any advice/threads anyone could give to me that is specific to night game would be appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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parkthebus

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My best advice? Stay away from places that house drunken angry frustrated men drinking alcohol. It's a recipe for trouble.

But if you insist on hitting a club, then go solo, and go late (i.e. after 11 pm). Some of the girls will likely be nice and loaded by then.
Any reason why you shouldn't go before 11 and wait till the girls are hammered?
 
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