"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Need advice on how to pull this off - she says I'm ***TOO ****Y***!!!!!

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
This is an inside school pick-up

I noticed this girl in the hallways before but never talked to her. She's been on and off with her boyfriend, not to judge but he is clearly AFC - you'll usually find him carrying her feminine book bag around the hallway.


So I only noticed her make eye contact with me once and I gave her a good look.


Earlier this week: When this started


I was in the library as was she and two other girls. This girl flirted with me the stronger out of the 3. Practically wanted a kiss from me later that same day while she was walking me somewhere in the hallway.

She texted me during the remaining classes. Flirted hard. Out of all the THREE girls that gave me their numbers she flirted with me the hardest and most effective.


THE NEXT DAY


She see's me in the library kinoing and talking to one of the other girls -----------------













After which I didn't receive the same reaction from this girl.

She's close friends with one of those other girls two, who talks to me all the time now. Leaks in my game, this girl basically knows I'm really interested and she knows I want her hard.

However on the phone yesterday she responded to something I said with "You need it cause your so ****y" too which I responded "alright, me and you can work on that"

we made plans for the 3 of us (me, her and the girl who's our mutual friend)

to go out next weekend for a Halloween activity - at an amusement park


GET IN HERE AND HELP a fellow DJ
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
Side note: The day we were texting in class the last text before I left school was her responding to me saying "Meet me before the end of the day"

and she said "Ya so I can attack you"

She's an aggressive controller, she was saying that in response to her interaction with me in the hallway earlier.
 

horaholic

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 12, 2008
Messages
2,254
Reaction score
79
keep at it. She said SO ****y, not TOO ****y, right? You're doing fine. If she's aggressive, she'll like a challenge, so be a challenge.
 

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
horaholic said:
keep at it. She said SO ****y, not TOO ****y, right? You're doing fine. If she's aggressive, she'll like a challenge, so be a challenge.

If I get the chance to do that next week I'll have her,

It's just about getting there. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Following_of_Me

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2008
Messages
92
Reaction score
3
Sounds like you've got it in the bag, to be honest. When it comes to getting there, that's easy. Once you've got her alone, just make sure your closing game is top notch. Closing is easy - either it goes well, or you get rejected. And either way, you play the same game.

Get her alone, get close to her, playful eye contact, kiss. Nothing more to it than that really.
 

Following_of_Me

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 22, 2008
Messages
92
Reaction score
3
And too ****y is fine. Don't listen.

In my experience, the girls that call me on my arrogance are the ones that when we're later in an intimate situation will tell me they love that Im ****y.
 

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
^ This girl looks like she'd be so good in bed, she's a year younger but she'd learn so much from me. When I met her and I was talking to her and the other two girls she said something about how she loves her hair to be pulled.

But she knows I want her. . . . before the first time we even hang out. . .
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Use your pimp brain. Why do you think she is on and off again with her beta boyfriend? What do you think she is doing when she is "off" with him? Why do you think she keeps going back?

She loves ****y (confident) men, she just can't keep them. She must not be very hot. She wants to bring you down to a level she can control, but if you submit then she loses the very thing that attracted her in the first place. Give her what she really wants. A strong confident man who can take her or leave her.
 

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
Thanks for the advice, if you guys wanna share any successful lines you used in these types of situations I could throw them in there at some point while interacting with her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Scars

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 20, 2007
Messages
2,126
Reaction score
1,002
Age
36
Location
Phoenix
Keep doing what you're doing.

What a girl says and what a girl does it two completely different things.

How many times have you heard this, "Ohhhh my god you are such an *******" or "You're soo ****y"

.. but then it's followed by a playful punch in the arm or she's smiling when she says it?

Just read her body language bro.

There's no such thing as being TOO ****Y unless you're just being a complete arrogant jackass.

Just make sure to follow it with lots of kino and sexual discussion. You don't want to over qualify yourself too much but keep that ****y sh!t rolling.
 

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
Scars said:
Keep doing what you're doing.

What a girl says and what a girl does it two completely different things.

How many times have you heard this, "Ohhhh my god you are such an *******" or "You're soo ****y"

.. but then it's followed by a playful punch in the arm or she's smiling when she says it?

Just read her body language bro.

There's no such thing as being TOO ****Y unless you're just being a complete arrogant jackass.

Just make sure to follow it with lots of kino and sexual discussion. You don't want to over qualify yourself too much but keep that ****y sh!t rolling.
That could be the case, if the plans stick I got the close easy because I know she really hasn't been with someone like me. The kino alone could probably get her for me without a word said. She hasn't given me no contact since but I remember the first day I met her when she was walking with me in the hallway. At the end of that walk she was staring in my eyes and I could tell she wanted a kiss, I gave her a look in the eye like I was going to give it to her and then smirked and told her we'd talk later. She said "Your so ****y" as I was halfway down the hallway and I said "You'd couldn't help it if you were me". She then proceeded to text me playfully telling me she wanted to "Attack me" :rockon:

Tyson420 said:
Your game is pretty good for some one who says he doesnt have social proof.
I guess you could say that, I hope I can be the center of a nice social circle when I move across the country.

For the first time in my life I was hanging with the cool kids (and yes, me and my friend were pulling the most girls out of all of our friends combined). Prior to this my whole life was my LTR and she was about the only person I hung out with for awhile.
 

Dante420

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 11, 2008
Messages
577
Reaction score
7
Location
Massachusetts
Update on this.


So walking into school late, was walking in the hallway when her and her friend come around the corner and she says "By the way were hanging out on Saturday" and keeps walking.

Interesting girl?

Should I hit her up Friday night or something? (Friday might be a bad time is Saturday morning too late?
 
Top