Need advice on how to proceed with this girl while not leading her on?

[Kal0051]

Met this girl recently, we were hanging with a larger group, bar hopping. Me and her were dancing, and I kissed her as a joke. Took the joke a bit further, making out. At the end of the night she offers me a ride home (the other people in our group went to a after party).

So we're making out in her car by the side of the road and things get even more heated. We almost had sex but I kinda hesitated and she saw it (did get a blow job but that's it). We're supposed to be hanging out in the future (where I assume we'll finish what we started).

The only problem is that I'm not really interested in her (like as in dating). Physically she's average looking, but not really the type I go for (but she doesn't turn me off or anything). I wouldn't mind fvcking her but I don't want to lead her on thinking that it's anything more than that. Any suggestions? The worst case is that I don't sleep with her and LJBF her.

 

[trent81]

Fuvk her, then worry about her feelings. You mean to tell me that you will let puvsy go because you are afraid to hurt her? Twenty bucks says she already doesn't want anything more to do with you either. You will fall for her first. You know who doesn't like to hurt people's feelings? AFC's

 

[Kal0051]

Fuvk her, then worry about her feelings. You mean to tell me that you will let puvsy go because you are afraid to hurt her. Twenty bucks says she already doesn't want anything more to do with you either.

I don't like to hurt people's feelings. And you may be right, we were talking about other girls and what I like (though she looked disappointed when she thought I had a date with a girl, but played it down).

 

[Desdinova]

I wouldn't mind fvcking her but I don't want to lead her on thinking that it's anything more than that.

You need to make your intentions known at the beginning of the relationship. If you feel she's trying to get a relationship out of the deal, let her know that you're not really ready (nor have the time) to be in a committed relationship.

You may end up hurting her feelings unintentionally, but after you make your intentions known, you're not responsible for any fantisizing, nor any dwelling that she does about you. She will know the situation she's in, and she will bring that hurt all upon herself.

If and when it comes to leave her, she will still have respect for you because she knows that none of her feelings were your responsibility.

....unless she's fvcked in the head. If you sense ANY kind of psychological issues with this woman, DO NOT PROCEED. If she's needy, controlling, manipulative or posessive, NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

You need to make your intentions known at the beginning of the relationship. If you feel she's trying to get a relationship out of the deal, let her know that you're not really ready (nor have the time) to be in a committed relationship.

You may end up hurting her feelings unintentionally, but after you make your intentions known, you're not responsible for any fantisizing, nor any dwelling that she does about you. She will know the situation she's in, and she will bring that hurt all upon herself.

If and when it comes to leave her, she will still have respect for you because she knows that none of her feelings were your responsibility.

....unless she's fvcked in the head. If you sense ANY kind of psychological issues with this woman, DO NOT PROCEED. If she's needy, controlling, manipulative or posessive, NEVER CONTACT HER AGAIN.

LOVE THE SIG DESDINOVA!!!!


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[Master JJ]

Just continue to "hang out" with her and fool around, and never once mention anything about being serious.

However you risk falling for her, and her using you. This happens more than you think.