"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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spread_love

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Do you just send e-mails for a while first, or should you just cut to the chase and ask them out for a coffee or a drink, I'd rather talk to a Woman in person than online, also what's the best way for spotting time wasters?

Thanks for your thoughts.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Luveno

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Strike while the iron's hot.
 

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dating web sites are bull sheat,how can i pay to chat with a woman and don't even see them,instead i go out to look for them.forget about dating web sites its just there to trick people
 

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on web sites women have the power. they are getting what they want - attention, without having to commit anything in return.

its like a nice little ego boost every time their email box says 'you've got mail'.

its a fantasy realm.

spend your time in the real world approaching women. in the real world YOU, as a man, have the power. a woman who would be a ball busting pr*ck online will be a polite, deer in the headlights chic in real life.
 

spread_love

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joekerr31 said:
on web sites women have the power. they are getting what they want - attention, without having to commit anything in return.

its like a nice little ego boost every time their email box says 'you've got mail'.

its a fantasy realm.

spend your time in the real world approaching women. in the real world YOU, as a man, have the power. a woman who would be a ball busting pr*ck online will be a polite, deer in the headlights chic in real life.
That's actually how I was thinking about it last night and that explains why I see a lot of the same Women online, it's annoying when you start chatting with one, exchange a few messages and they don't reply back though, it's pretty rude if you ask me.

At first I think, did I say something wrong?, but then I think, who cares, it's her problem, not mine and her loss not mine.

I'm not paying for this website, it's free so whatever is whatever.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spread_love said:
I'm not paying for this website, it's free so whatever is whatever.
good, never ever pay for a dating site. they can not promise you anything for your buck, but yet they can't wait to take your buck.
 

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spread_love said:
Do you just send e-mails for a while first, or should you just cut to the chase and ask them out for a coffee or a drink, I'd rather talk to a Woman in person than online, also what's the best way for spotting time wasters?

Thanks for your thoughts.
I don't do the email thing. As soon as we're in contact through email, I suggest the phone right away; f*ck messenger, f*ck email, f*ck all that bullsh*t, really. Once we're in contact, I'll say:

"We'll exchange number's, mines blah blah blah, unless you're uncomfortable with the phone at first, I'll make the exception." Simple. I do exactly what I'd do as if I was in a bar/club.
 

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joekerr31 said:
a woman who would be a ball busting pr*ck online will be a polite, deer in the headlights chic in real life.
Haha, yup, exactly.
 
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