Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need advice on CORE training(abs)

FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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I've been working out for a bit of a while and I have noticed that my body is getting bigger and bigger,which is nice.The thing is, i've noticed that when I flex in the mirror I can only get a glimpse of my ab muscles.As of now I have been running and lifting alittle.I am at the age of 15 and I in my honest opinion think I shouldnt do ANY HEAVY lifting, maybe sometimes but thats all.I'm wondering on some excercises to build core muscle.(EFFECTIVE ways)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I-tallionStallion

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Yeah forget heavy weights..they don't do anything to build up core...instead do five million incline situps a day...really effective :rolleyes:
 

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You need to do lots of heavy lifting. How else are you going to build muscle?
 

FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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..I'm pretty big.. im 6'0 with big muscles..Im more worried about my core than arms etc.. plus I do excercises that only targest arms and body.Running for LEGS i guess
 

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Man, you can't do running for legs. squats build legs.

Get on a weight program (not one you make up yourself) + fix your diet + cardio = abs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FiNs2BeCaUgHt said:
... As of now I have been running and lifting alittle.I am at the age of 15 and I in my honest opinion think I shouldnt do ANY HEAVY lifting, maybe sometimes but thats all.I'm wondering on some excercises to build core muscle.(EFFECTIVE ways)
FiNs2BeCaUgHt said:
255.. Age:15.. you guys are weak.. average freshmans bench 190 +.. oh cmon adults!!... thats all you weak ****s got?LAME..
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138820

Oh, the young and foolish.

edit: I just read another thread by you... 290 LB BENCH PRESSES IN HIGHSCHOOL?! That's like... two plates and a thirty five a side... Dude. I don't see university football players benching that much. Somethin ain't right, there.
 

I-tallionStallion

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Throttle said:
i was going to suggest some ineffective ways, but nevermind.
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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A-http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444
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B-http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782
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Big and strong

Ps-And if he can do 290 at 15 and doesn't know how to train he is a FREAK. More than likely he is adding it up wrongly or doing an eighth press, like I see some guys do in the smyth.
 

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I wonder.. I remember when I was younger. The popular understanding was that one shouldn't lift heavy weights, build a lot of muscle until one is done growing their full length.. as the muscle will keep the bone from fully expanding.. thus you don't grow to your max hight.

To me now I'm guessing its pretty much bs. I could look it up at the moment but I gota get ready for work.. but I wonder if thats the reason the OP doesn't want to lift heavy..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I-tallionStallion

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Quagmire911 said:
More than likely he is adding it up wrongly or doing an eighth press, like I see some guys do in the smyth.

hahaha yeah...probably both. Lol and the smyth comment is soo true haha
 

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JohnnyIrish said:
I wonder.. I remember when I was younger. The popular understanding was that one shouldn't lift heavy weights, build a lot of muscle until one is done growing their full length.. as the muscle will keep the bone from fully expanding.. thus you don't grow to your max hight.

To me now I'm guessing its pretty much bs. I could look it up at the moment but I gota get ready for work.. but I wonder if thats the reason the OP doesn't want to lift heavy..
Lifting stunting growth is bs. End off.
 

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Stunted growth from lifting

I thougth it was BS.. I also looked it up and this is what I found:

Effects on Growth
Most of the scientific literature on injury refers to activities other than strength training, such as competitive weight lifting, and to age-groups other than prepubescents. Stunted growth in Japanese children who habitually carried heavy loads on their shoulders was compared with the effects of weight training.4 The study did not address other factors, such as poor nutrition, sleep deprivation, and general health conditions, all of which may affect growth.

Recent literature4,5,14 indicates that strength training will not have an adverse effect on growth. A few studies4,5 have shown positive growth effects as long as proper nutrition and age-specific physical activity guidelines were met. However, resistance training will not affect an individuals' genotypic maximum.4,5 Parents can be assured that strength training (in moderation) will not have an adverse effect on growth. Training may actually be an effective stimulus for growth and bone mineralization in children, especially for those at risk for osteopenia or osteoporosis.25
 

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I've talked to some bodybuilders, and what you are thinking of is "spinal compression." EVERYONES spine gets compressed when going about throughout the day, so it shortens you maybe a couple of centimeters. Lifting has no effect on it, and you gain back that small amount of lost height when you sleep.

Only Marathon runners experience it to a noticeable degree, they apparantly lose about an inch or two.

Nutrition of course is a MUCH bigger factor. I wouldn't worry about weight training hurting growth at all.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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