Need advice on a younger girl pickup... LONG

[electron]

Yeah I realize that she isn't LTR now.....I am thinking the same as you guys....have fun and bang her....and I have no problem with that!

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by electron
Yeah I realize that she isn't LTR now.....I am thinking the same as you guys....have fun and bang her....and I have no problem with that!

LOL i don't see why you would

 

[Starwind]

Wait, what?! So you all expect to f-close girls when you first meet them, but this girl can't even get in the car with this guy? Double-standard, anyone?

Well, whether you want to get with this girl or not is up to you; I didn't see anything terribly wrong with this girl.

About gold-digging: you drive a Porsche, so of course you'll be wary of any girl who even looks at your car; you should expect it. You bought it as a symbol of status (otherwise you'd have a Honda) and it's doing it's job--so don't blame girls for being attracted to it.

About a boyfriend: big deal. So she had a sh*tty boyfriend. Almost every girl has had a bad boyfriend in their past. Doesn't mean you should write her off completely. If we were supposed to do that, we wouldn't date anyone at all.

About not calling, losing your number, seeing her nephew: she was just unsure if she wanted to pursue the guy. Girls aren't always 100% certain when they first see a guy; you all are expecting her to either jump at his feet or completely blow him off--black or white. You have to convince girls that you're a good catch and that you're what she's looking for--she can't know that if she's only talked to you a few times. You were a stranger to her, don't expect her to treat you as though she's known you all your life.

I'm not claiming to be right, here--I could very well be wrong and she could be a psycho. Or I could be correct after all. I don't know her, and neither do any of you--electron included. All I'm saying is you guys shouldn't be so quick to write her off like that.

My 2 cents; I'm out.

 

[Howie Farkes]

About a boyfriend: big deal. So she had a sh*tty boyfriend. Almost every girl has had a bad boyfriend in their past. Doesn't mean you should write her off completely. If we were supposed to do that, we wouldn't date anyone at all.

Alright I wasn't clear there - having an ex-boyfriend wasn't the problem - complaining about him on a first date was.

I will admit that each red flag in itself was not a deal breaker and can could probably be ignored in isolation. But collectively, and by sheer numbers, they were a geat indication that she wasn't a "keeper".

I don't know her, and neither do any of you

Of course, but the whole basis of an internet discussion is to advise or discuss based upon the presented information.

 

[Reto]

Tons of reds flags. But who cares. Just keep it in the back of the your mind and keep going.

You got other chicks. If this one flakes out, another ones right around the corner. Never even consier getting attached to a chick until she's hooked on you.

I do have to hand it to you. If she gave me that line about baby sitting, I would have been so p!ssed, I would have told her off...Way to keep your cool...

Great story...

 

[electron]

OK Update........

I called her today (Sunday) the date was last Monday.

I said hi etc, how was your weekend?........She is like what happened.....did you lose my number, in a joking way....I say haha, I was just really busy etc......but I had a fun time and we should get together again soon....say this week Mon/Tues........She says, I had fun too.....we should do that...I am off until Wednesday.....I am in the country right now (was on her cellular) she says for me to call her later tonight to make plans)


Thoughts.....

 

[Starman]

you are definitely in like flynn..good job..

if she said for you to call her to make plans for monday or tuesday..do it..plus sundays are the best time to call say around 8ish or 9ish...

think of something cool you want to do..and just say "Im gonna take you somewhere .. but its a surprise "

then take her to McDonalds or something

 

[electron]

think of something cool you want to do..and just say "Im gonna take you somewhere .. but its a surprise "

Haha Hillarious but would sure put her in her place....althogh perhaps too drastic.... lol


I'll call her later and keep you guys posted......and Starman I think I will concentrate on her slightly more for a bit, and let Lindsey cool off.....like you suggested.


Sheeesh this is like a full time job! lol

 

[Starman]

haha Electron..

be careful what you wish for..pretty soon you are gonna have chicks calling your machine day and night asking "WTF!! when are you gonna call me bacckkk!! A$$hole!!!"

dating multiple women while seemingly appears appealing..realistically its draining on you both for time and money

but go with the "surprise" date..its mysterious and will have her excited to see where you will take her..then take her to like Dave and Busters .. or someplace unusual..like rock climbing, medieval times, a bike ride at the beach..something active and fun

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by electron
OK Update........

I called her today (Sunday) the date was last Monday.

I said hi etc, how was your weekend?........She is like what happened.....did you lose my number, in a joking way....I say haha, I was just really busy etc......but I had a fun time and we should get together again soon....say this week Mon/Tues........She says, I had fun too.....we should do that...I am off until Wednesday.....I am in the country right now (was on her cellular) she says for me to call her later tonight to make plans)


Thoughts.....

If i were you, i would have told her to call me instead. After all, you already made the effort to contact her both times, so why should you be the one doing all the work?

 

[electron]

If i were you, i would have told her to call me instead. After all, you already made the effort to contact her both times, so why should you be the one doing all the work?

You know afterwards I was thinking the exact same thing.......its hard to be quick on your feet sometimes......maybe I will wait until tomorrow to call instead as next best thing

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by electron
You know afterwards I was thinking the exact same thing.......its hard to be quick on your feet sometimes......maybe I will wait until tomorrow to call instead as next best thing

Well if you already said you'd call, it's too late and you should. Be dependable, it's one of the things that sets men apart from boys, i think she'd appreciate it. Not 100% on this though - shoudn't forget that she put up with a jerk boyfriend for years.

 

[Professor]

So what has happened? Any updates? I have a bit of a similiar situation than this one, so it's interesting to know how it went for you.

 

[electron]

Hey,


Well.....we have ended up playing a lot of phone tag..........after our first date, I never called for about 6 days. When I did call (it was her cell phone) we talked for a bit....she told me she got another job at a club as a bartender (Canada legal age 19) bla bla bla...told her we were should go out again later that week she said "yes" so I tell her I'll call soon.

I call a few days later, and she sounded really sick, so I didn't talk with her long, as she was at her older sisters house (sister was my age lol) I could tell she was sick so I let her go ( I always make sure to do this first).

At this point I was ready to forget about her when on a Saturday I get home and there is a voicemail from her......"Hey Electron it's Nat, sorry I haven't called ya, I've been working a lot lately and was in the hospital yesterday, cuz I was sick. Anyway give me a call on my cel 555-5555 or at home better chance to get me there 555-5555........look, ya finally got my home number " end of message (she likes to leave teasing type messages)

I call her next day, she is on her cell, as no answer at her house. She tells me she is on the way to the mall. we chat for a bit, then I get a long distance call on my cell, so I let her go. I call back afterwards and there was no answer.....


I haven't really been concentrating on her so much, as I have been having success with a HB 7.5-8.0 brunette 24......who is more mature....but not as hot.......

I called her again a week later and she was getting ready to go to work at the club.....we chat for a bit, she sounds like she likes it there and has been partying a lot, and is partying afterwards......at this point I think I will Next her, unless she calls again. She has actually called me about 4 times so I dunno maybe she is just a big tease. At this point I just want ONS her, and give it to her hard! Then forget about her.

Even if this goes doesn't lead anywhere...as it seems to, it was fun anyway, and was a good overall confidence boost to know that I could at least gain some interest level form a HOT younger girl.

 

[electron]

You wanna share some details on your deal.......