"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So on the same topic of this girl and generalizing it to all girls as well ... if a girl has these issues with herself, but from the outside she seems normal, could she still be a slvt underneath? She dresses appropriately, doesn't reveal skin, doesn't show off @ss, and wore glasses when we first met. But that part is questionable bc she went from wearing glasses to wearing choker necklaces. Is the way a girl dresses a good indicator of how much she sleeps around? This girl is like the polar opposite of how a sorority girl dresses
Generally speaking you cannot reliably judge according to looks, behavior is the defining characteristic of anyone (male or female).

A girl could at first glance look like a slvt, but be totally awesome. She could also look amazing and be the worst b!tch you've ever met. You don't really know until you've seen how she acts. The "classic" stereotypes are outdated and completely unreliable.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So on the same topic of this girl and generalizing it to all girls as well ... if a girl has these issues with herself, but from the outside she seems normal, could she still be a slvt underneath? She dresses appropriately, doesn't reveal skin, doesn't show off @ss, and wore glasses when we first met. But that part is questionable bc she went from wearing glasses to wearing choker necklaces. Is the way a girl dresses a good indicator of how much she sleeps around? This girl is like the polar opposite of how a sorority girl dresses
not every slut dresses like one, some like to try and hide it, some don't live in places where it's feasible (like, a slut who lives in the cold part of russia probably doesn't wear a mini skirt, but that doesn't mean that cold places don't have sluts, ditto for socially conservative countries)

however even if she is a slut and that's the reason she's been hurt so many times that she doesn't want to get attached or whatever, she's not going to let you have your chance to break her heart so who cares? lol
 
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