Need advice on a situation

[bonjove]

Ok, here is the situation.

Today a girl I know sits down acrost from me at lunch and starts a conversation by stating "So, you've seen about 12 girls right."
So, I tell her yes, and that since I have started school I have probably blew off that many. Then she tells me that I am scared of girls. I reply by saying that girls are a lot nicer here compared to the fast chicks at the community college I use to go to. She gets a funny look on her face and askes me if I was seeing a girl named "Anna." I said no, and then she states that she is not a very nice person and she is a back stabber and blaw blaw. I again asserted that I wasn't, and wouldn't ever date her. She then says that she needs to go see her tutor and takes off...

What is this girls deal? I mean why would she bring up anything about me dating anyone to begin with and insist that I am scared to death of girls. The only thing I could think of is that I have been doing a lot of self improvement lately, and maybe she was interested in my involvement with someone or something.

Any ideas?

 

[bonjove]

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[bonjove]

I think she is just a ***** personally, and so is that "Anna" girl.
The girl that asked me if I have seen about 12 girls actually blew me off back when I was trying to make game out of her a year or so ago by saying that I reminded her of her brother, so I am not sure if she is actually interested in me or not. Unless of course she has found some new sort of interest in me, which is possible but I doubt it.

 

[uniassign]

Today a girl I know sits down acrost from me at lunch and starts a conversation by stating "So, you've seen about 12 girls right."

She liked you. First of all, it is NONE of her business how many girls you have "seen". The fact that she is asking such a personal question means she is testing you for something more than friendship.

So, I tell her yes, and that since I have started school I have probably blew off that many.

Did you tell her that you have blew off that many? That might have come off as arrogant, but would have been ok if you were funny and joking about it. You should have exaggerate the amount of girls you have seen.

NEVER answer a test in a straight forward manner. Always ridicule her question, or ignore it or twist it around to YOUR advantage.

Then she tells me that I am scared of girls.

She is trying to push your buttons. Trying to get you fired up (which I think is what she likes).

I reply by saying that girls are a lot nicer here compared to the fast chicks at the community college I use to go to.

Wrong answer. Remember either (a) funny (b) ignore (c) turn it around to your advantage.

She gets a funny look on her face and askes me if I was seeing a girl named "Anna."I said no, and then she states that she is not a very nice person and she is a back stabber and blaw blaw. I again asserted that I wasn't, and wouldn't ever date her. She then says that she needs to go see her tutor and takes off...

Final chance to redeem yourself, but again you failed. Don't worry see this as a LEARNING experience.

 

[bonjove]

Are you guys sure that she is at all interested in me?

You know she did come back and sit at the table with me like 5 minutes later when her tutor arrived and then when I was going to leave she said "Are you leaving so soon?"

I said "No why, do you want me to stay?"

She said, "Go wreck havic (jokingly)"

I said "I'll take that as a go then"

She said "Naw, just do what you feel like"

me "ok, Cya"

 

[Serialized3]

does it matter if shes into you? if you think she's a "*****", then why even hassle over her, go hit on some other girl

 

[bonjove]

Ohh yeah,her tutor was a cute girl who I barely speak to but said hi and knew my name when she sat down next to me....

 

[bonjove]

Originally posted by Serialized3
does it matter if shes into you? if you think she's a "*****", then why even hassle over her, go hit on some other girl

Well, she doesn't always act like a bytch. The only time she really starts acting bytchy is when the concept of me "dating" someone pops up. Like that time around. That's why I referred to her as a bytch.

 

[bonjove]

Originally posted by uniassign

She gets a funny look on her face and askes me if I was seeing a girl named "Anna."I said no, and then she states that she is not a very nice person and she is a back stabber and blaw blaw. I again asserted that I wasn't, and wouldn't ever date her. She then says that she needs to go see her tutor and takes off...

Final chance to redeem yourself, but again you failed. Don't worry see this as a LEARNING experience. [/B]

How could I have talked my way out of that? I couldn't have lied and said I would when I am not interested.