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[Mintyfreshh]

Hey I'll try to keep this quick:

I've been seeing this girl for a little over two months now.

Lately it has become painfully obvious that I'm more interested in her than she is in me. We usually speak on the phone every night, but she's blown me off for the past 3 nights (and I know damn well she has nothing better to do, just playing video games and sh*t)

She STILL won't give me sex and we've gone on 7 or 8 "weekend" dates, so that means we've spent between 14 and 20 days together. The amount of money I've spent on her is adding up rather quickly.... (I understand the last guy left her right after they banged ... but come on)

The one time she gave me oral, I had to REALLY persuade her and after I was done she immediately ran upstairs to rinse her mouth out (damn was that a turn off.) She gave me some BS about feeling like a wh*re afterwards too.

She does however give me HJ's and massages every night that I see her. She simulates sex with me with her panties on very often, talks dirty to me, showers with me, sleeps naked with me. Blah blah.

She also has a very .... dark and nasty side to her. If she gets angry she'll REALLY try to hurt me and such.


What would you guys do if you were me?

 

[ludis]

This is the type of girl that can string you along like this for a year or two, then break up with you and fvck someone else's brains out on the second date.

But can you really blame her?

You're operating as if you're doing whatever she's letting you to.

You're too available and at her mercy. She's bound to despise you for that exact reason.

Money spending? wrong

Hours on the phone? wrong

Not assertive/dominant about your wants and needs? wrong

Take some time for yourself and flip the script.
Meet some new girls.
Realise that your needs and desires are a priority and act accordingly.