Need Advice is she flaking? Please read and advise

[danny0001uk]

Hi All,

So i met this chick about 3 weeks ago we chat a lot and have met up twice along with groups of friends hers and mine.

I asked her to go out on Friday on fb chat, which is how we mostly communicate.

The conversation is below.

Where do I go from here, ive spent a lot of time getting her to prove her qualites to me and there is a lot of kino when we are together.

Please read and advise the next step for me!

Me : Rachel do you know what I want

Her: What?

Me: to take you out on Friday

Her: Do u?

Me: yes
I want to see how quick I can make you smile lol


Her: Lol

Me: Though I bet your smiling now
i want to get to know you better

Her: Do u? Y?

Me: I want to find out more about your personality
I think we really get along and I want to find out more
dont you think?


Her: Thats true

Me: Have you gone all shy? lol
there's not that many women I meet like you i feel like you've got that something extra


Her :Aw

Me: im thinking maybe you deserve a chance
and I want to give that too you
but its up too you
ive done my bit lol and if its not you ill find someone else special


her: lol
Sorry, i was just taking in what you had said
I didnt really think it was like that, i just thought u were giving me a bit of banter for a laugh

Me: I think we really get on and have lots of laughs
ahd have a lot in common and have fun
I just feel like we could have a lot of good times together

Her: I think you're right, we do have a lot in common, n we do have a giggle

Me: and we have similar ideas of naughtiness

Her: Ha do we now?

Me: ha
im sure youll find out soon enough

and then she fell asleep which she normally does!!!

Please advise!!!!

 

[user name]

no. she's not flaking.

in order to flake a girl has to at least give some indication that she's interested.

 

[danny0001uk]

What should my next move be? How should be with her she agreed that we have lots in common and got on.

 

[SamTheHobit]

no. she's not flaking.

in order to flake a girl has to at least give some indication that she's interested.

Yep.

OP this women had absolutely zero interest. On to the next one bro

 

[DragonBlood]

Me : Rachel [...] I want to take you out on Friday

Her: Do u?

Dan: i want to get to know you better

Her: Do u? Y?

Dan: we have similar ideas of naughtiness

Her: Ha do we now?

and then she fell asleep

I hope this is clear enough.


You had your answer at the first 'Do u'. Women dont question a request if they are interested! Not even a little! Also notice how short and badly spelled her messages are and how long and pushy yours are. She doesnt give an fuk and probably isnt as surprised by your request as you think. She invested nothing here.. online chat on the side? come on bro!


Both Guys and Girls LOVE attention from the opposite sex. With it comes a sense of value, amusement and maybe a free ticket to the movies! But when a person makes a move all of a sudden the dynamic changes and they play dumb. Asking her out was the best decision youve made because now you know you are wasting your time on this one.


I use to do this with one of my female bosses. Extremely flirty around me, touching, hugging etc and asked me to write her and come visit her new workplace regardless of the fact she already has a boyfriend. Sadly, she is not hot at all and I have more respect for my job, so I just play along and play dumb. Its fun! And to be honest I have way more attractive girls to focus my attention on.


I hope you see the similarities and you should call it for what it is. You are over-investing for no reason and she loves it. Puts her in a beaming mood for her date with Johnny tonight.

 

[nismo-4]

She fell asleep because she was in my castle. She's trying to get the stains out of my robe now.

This girl is an attention wh0re. All these short ass answers. She has low interest and you're giving way more than she's giving you. She controls this whole situation. So drop her and spin more plates. She knows what she's doing, don't be a naïve-ass beta.

Case closed.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Too much texting makes you common and takes away your allure and mystery. Texting is playing with fire when it comes to relationships. It backfires far more often than it does any good.

She gets a constant, non-stop barrage of texting from her girlfriends all day long. A man needs to transcend her mundane, boring world. I always advise to stay out of the pipeline that is reserved for her vapid girl-talk.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Hi All,

So i met this chick about 3 weeks ago we chat a lot and have met up twice along with groups of friends hers and mine.

I asked her to go out on Friday on fb chat, which is how we mostly communicate.

The conversation is below.

Where do I go from here, ive spent a lot of time getting her to prove her qualites to me and there is a lot of kino when we are together.

Please read and advise the next step for me!

The next step is to stop tellin' hoes the weak a$$ sh*t that you're currently telling them.

Me : Rachel do you know what I want

Her: What?


Me: to take you out on Friday

Her: Do u?

Me: yes

I want to see how quick I can make you smile lol

Really, muthaf*cka? You actually told a broad this bullsh*t and expected a positive result? On Facebook at that. (Shaking my mutaf*ckin' head,) You're a perfect example of one of those cats who hide behind social media because of your abject refusal to deal with women in the flesh.

Rachel, you know what I want? I want to see how quick I make you smile? Nigga miss me with that bullsh*t. You need to be ashamed of yourself for not only saying this sh*t to a broad, but thinking it was a good idea to do so.