Need advice in escalating...

[Dude2Stud]

Alright been hanging with a girl (Actually girlfriend been a month with her), we tend to watch movies at her place, in her room, (she lives with an aunt and a 23 year old cousin), she is 20. She is a bit shy, and she looks like the kind of girl that wont have sex until marriage (although I haven't asked her if she is a virgin or not).

In the room we cuddle, talk, laugh, tease and that stuff. Then turns into passionate kissing.

Anyways, im also lacking my man skills here cus I'm afraid to make her feel unconfortable and unsure by escalating and make the situation/atmosphere akward when we are at her room (Damn the logistic is perfect).

I need your advice.

Here are the problems:
1- I'm afraid to escalate into breast/*****/ass because I think she will feel nervous/akward/unsure
2- She also isn't very touchy at my inner parts, just chest, face, arms, but she has never tried going into my Jr.

Solution: Well I have come to think that the solution is being a man and risk myself.

Although I don't have much experience I want to ask the experienced guys:

How do you deal with shy girls and escalate and not make her feel nervous/unconfortable/unsure?

Lets say I try and it works and she lets herself be touched, what If she responds bad? What can be a good response if she feels akward? (I can just think of, "we are not going to do anything you don't want)


Thanks before hand.

 

[macking]

1.Two steps forward one step back ..
2.Try biting each other .. if she response bad, freez out.

And , you are not talking any big risk, if she allows you to go to her place, only you 2, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR

 

[Scars]

She's your girlfriend dude, you're allowed to explore this stuff. She's probably actually WAITING for you to make a move. Who cares what she looks like, if she's never given you a deffinate reason to believe she would wait until marriage then what are you waiting for? Has she ever directly told you "Stop, I think we should wait until we're married"? Probably not, so just do it.

See how far you can go, until she says stop. Then after that, work a little game and try again. Here's an example of me last night actually:

I'm watching movies at this chicks house. She's a couple years older than me, and I'm 18 so I have reason to be a little iffy about this.. we're not going out either. It's like 2 in the morning, her mom and two brothers are asleep and we're just on her couche making out. We had just got out of a conversation about her telling me she doesn't put out and how she's not a slvt, blah blah blah. Typical anti-slut deffense. I agree with her, and tell her "I never thought you were a slut, and I appreciate the fact that you respect yourself" and give her a peck on the lips. Then we started making out, like I said. I started playing with her hair and neck, slowly increasing the intensity of my kissing. Pretty soon her hand is pressing my face into hers, and our tounges are wrestling like a god damn WWE match. I started grabbing her a$$, I get an ok. I move my hand up her shirt, I get an ok. I move my hand up more and grab her breasts from outside her bra and rub them, another ok. I back off a little, put my hand back on her neck and kiss her some more. After a few minutes of that, I put my hand back up her shirt, expect this time I slide my hand under her bra and rub her breasts until her nipples are hard. I was contimplating on whether I should try sucking on them.. but I didn't wanna push it. A few minutes later, I was pretty horny so I was like fvck it.. and I wanted to see how far I could go. So I slide my hand over her pants (she was wearing booty shorts and a thong) and just rubbed her pvssy from outside her shorts, then I slid my hand under her booty shorts and just rubbed her pvssy from outside her thong and I could feel how wet she was even through her underwear. I was like damn, here we go.. then I try and slide my hands under the underwear than BAM. "I'm on my period." GOD DAMNIT! She kept apologizing and stuff, but I'm pretty sure I got this next time. After that I layed low, and then more sh!t tests followed.. "You don't want me just for sex do you?" (Expect a lot of those.. before and after) you've got to really make them trust you. But anyway.. I'm sorry for writing a damn novel, but let that be a lesson to about escalation. Before hanging out with this chick I thought I was going to make out with her.. at the most. But I was like fvck it.. I just wanna see how far I can take it. I've been turned down a few times escalating, but it's not as bad as you think.. they don't think you're the scum of the earth and it's not insulting to them. If anything it's a compliment, you find them sexually attractive and atleast you have the balls to go for what you want. So I say, next time you're with her and the time is right, just go for it. See how far you can take it. And remember, two steps foreward, one step back.

 

[Dude2Stud]

Thanks for the advice, really appreciate it, I'm gonna try things up and i'll report what happens.