"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Need Advice if my GF wants to do something

tatlongxxx

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here's the situation. My GF has a class schedule of 1 in the afternoon. She told me that she need to go to school early for her to review her math subject. Should i react on this? Eventhough i think she is lying to me i dont know what to say to her. I want to be confident and musculine. If this happen again, should i follow her to find if she is lying? :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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decades

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I think if you decide you need to follow her, you are on very dangerous ground in this relationship. that is codependent behaviour and it will tear you up. If you have reason to believe she can't be trusted, end the relationship NOW. If you have an over active imagination, you need to work on YOURSELF.

regards

mike
 

WaterTiger

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Your girlfriend goes to class early and you're freaking out?:rolleyes:

DUUUUUDE! Get a GRIP! Why are you so worried and controling? Most women suck at math, she probably has to study a little harder to keep up.

Chill out!:cool:
 

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This guy needs to work on the basics. Yet another candidate for the main board.

Moved to Don Juan Discussion.
 

Dukester

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omg stop being so clingly and such a pvss a/b it. if you think she's cheating or something, talk to her about it- best thing in a ltr is communication
other than that, stop bugging out dude-
going to class early probably means going to class early. hell i get their early if i need help. jeeze
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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