"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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need advice: girl wont give it up completely

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Okay last night I was hanging with this **** buddy of mine.

And.... we were making out and what not for like 2 1/2 hours.

Having her fall in love with me and what not. :rolleyes: Basically lying my ass off to try and get some.

Well I told her I had never gotten head and she's like, "ahhh at least you're clean lol" :nervous: (I like that face, not that it goes with the ****in' quote lol)

Anyway... She said that she wants us to be dating 1st and then she "doesn't know" or w/e from there.

It's like, *****, it's been easier before with girls hotter than you so why are you giving me so much friction lol.

So the night ended with a kiss and hug and whatnot, borring... :woo:

I can't see any way around it, anyone have advice? Hell if not I've got others, but theres only one girl that I dont have to put in effort with and shes in another state now :confused: ..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are you serious? Don't even try and pull **** with me that's annoying. Ya know what? Try this website these boys will make you feel like a complete retard www.pimpology.org, go ahead try and flame people there.:nono:

Now I want a positive response. I wanna sethis ***** already. :yes: :rolleyes:
 
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He wasn't flaming you.. it's a fairly legitimate question considering your post. Make-out buddy sure but you post is clearly seeking help because she wasn't being a **** buddy.

I can't say much because I don't know how the interaction really was between the two of you, but perhaps you verbalizing the idea turned her off of it (made her feel like a slut, or like she was being used, or whatever).
 
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You are exactly right, those were the thoughts running through my head at the time.

She said going into a relationship it would all happen and w/e. I honestly see no way around this, I guess my ass will actually have to wait lol.

What you think?
 

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ima str8 up pimp said:
You are exactly right, those were the thoughts running through my head at the time.

She said going into a relationship it would all happen and w/e. I honestly see no way around this, I guess my ass will actually have to wait lol.

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I think you've got issues dude. If you just want to **** her then leave it at that. No need to lie to her and hurt her feelings. There's plenty of women who just want physical stuff.
 
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No sorry mang. I probably will end up hurting her feelings anyway. Im a player dude, do you honestly believe I had any feelings for her what-so-ever? :down:

I will wait and what will happen will happen, if it doesn't then whatever, I'll drop her ass. :)
 
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No sorry mang. I probably will end up hurting her feelings anyway. Im a player dude, do you honestly believe I had any feelings for her what-so-ever? :down:

I will wait and what will happen will happen, if it doesn't then whatever, I'll drop her ass. :)
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No I don't think you ever had any feelings. But that's besides the point isn't it. To be honest I don't think highly of the breed of psychopaths you're from. You're probably just incapable of having emotions and conscience whatsoever.
 
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Take no notice Lifeforce, he's just a little boy trying to put on a tough attitude. When he grows up, he'll cringe when he thinks back at how he used to be.

It's kind of sweet when you think about it. He's trying so hard to impress everyone and tells people a girl he made out with is his f*ck buddy! I suppose he considers passing a girl in the street a date too or an online chat a relationship. Awww, bless! That's so cute!
 
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w/e mang, I'll do what I please. **** Buddy soon to be, as soon as I get her to fall in deep love with me and what not.

Deep, passionate, emotional, love lolz. Mang and Life force Im sorry you feel that way, but I am a player and life isn't always fair.

What I do fear however is Karma ha, but I've had my heart crushed once or twice, ***** will live :) .

The Truth? Stop trying mang, you're not cool lol :yes:
Life force, sorry you feel that way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i know what you are sayin man, when you are with that girl tell her: get on your knees and suck *****!

or tell her whatever she wants to hear so she will suck your ****

dont player hate, congratulate
 
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And this is the same tool that tried to flame me when I found something wrong in every post he's ever made? Anytime somebody finds him to be wrong or stupid he finds a reason to go off on them. I think you're quite insecure and beyond help, buddy. Why don't you go back to making out with your "fúck buddy" and grace us with another FUR? If you're a 'straight up pimp', why do you need advice from lesser men like us?
 
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