need advice girl i saw valentines night wknd wouldn't sleep with me

[thelonewolflegend]

And would make excuse like saying had to go home take off makeup andsee her gma. She seems to like me because she always responda to me, answers my calls and does everything else just about except sex. She told me she wants to take it slow and she wouldn't promise it that night. I read online i was supposed tell her we arent haven sex or we shouldn't do this? Also she never initiates contact so i have a date tomorrow night with her to play pool. How can i get her back and sleep with her? Also how do u get a girl to initate contact? Its been a while for
me i just started getting ****y and confident alot better thanks to this site i just need more push or advice. I make fun of her sometimes i go along with her obviously in bed it seem like she had upper hand so i need to know what should i do? I see-call her bout twice a wk?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Also she told me only mostly been with jerks and nothing long term but when she found out they were married or had gf she wouldnt see them anymore. Also i know she has interest most of the texts have smileys she flirtsshes always available, and shes accepting of accident, comes out to see me and never ends the phone calls i even heard beeping on her end like someone calling her.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Sorry just need advice seeing her tomorrow thanks

 

[Yewki]

The meaning of her action is based on how long you've been seeing her. I didn't see where you stated this, so based on the following scenarios on when this Valentine's Day incident occured I would say,

1st Date - Doesn't find you extremely attractive or isn't a big sl*t. Not a big deal. This isn't necessarily bad either. Keep trying to escalate.

2nd Date - Doesn't find you highly attractive or isn't a sl*t. This is generally a bad, but you can't always get what you want. Keep trying to escalate.

3rd Date - Doesn't find you particularly attractive or is serious about a LTR. You're entering the land of LTR. If this is not where you're going, turn around: focus your attention elsewhere and test her interest level. Otherwise, proceed with caution.

4th Date - Has little attraction to you or is adamant on a LTR. If you're looking for a quick f*ck you missed your turn off: NC and walk away. If you're looking for a LTR and she is still showing interest, keep your frame in check and be ready to walk away because it's very easy at this point to end up with little control and her using sex to manipulate you. Here's your LTR pamphlet.

2 Months+ - Finds you unattractive or is a prude. Generally the best case is you will have a passionless LTR. More likely case, you missed LTR Land and ended up in Friend Zone. Either way, just drive to the nearest airport, ditch your car, and GTFO.

 

[thelonewolflegend]

We almost had sex but didnt she said she couldnt promise it. She seems like she wants long term but if she doesnt **** me tomorrow shes a prude? She was into our interaction and was really wet n stuff. So shes gotta be attracted how do i avoid her using sex to manipilate me??

 

[thelonewolflegend]

What if i told her after sex that i dont wanna be manipulated or use sex like that or cant be in control ive been thru enough crap i dont mind longterm but i dont wanna be played

 

[uut]

And would make excuse like saying had to go home take off makeup andsee her gma. She seems to like me because she always responda to me, answers my calls and does everything else just about except sex. She told me she wants to take it slow and she wouldn't promise it that night. I read online i was supposed tell her we arent haven sex or we shouldn't do this? Also she never initiates contact so i have a date tomorrow night with her to play pool. How can i get her back and sleep with her? Also how do u get a girl to initate contact? Its been a while for
me i just started getting ****y and confident alot better thanks to this site i just need more push or advice. I make fun of her sometimes i go along with her obviously in bed it seem like she had upper hand so i need to know what should i do? I see-call her bout twice a wk?

Stanley I is gay

 

[uut]

The meaning of her action is based on how long you've been seeing her. I didn't see where you stated this, so based on the following scenarios on when this Valentine's Day incident occured I would say,

1st Date - Doesn't find you extremely attractive or isn't a big sl*t. Not a big deal. This isn't necessarily bad either. Keep trying to escalate.

2nd Date - Doesn't find you highly attractive or isn't a sl*t. This is generally a bad, but you can't always get what you want. Keep trying to escalate.

3rd Date - Doesn't find you particularly attractive or is serious about a LTR. You're entering the land of LTR. If this is not where you're going, turn around: focus your attention elsewhere and test her interest level. Otherwise, proceed with caution.

4th Date - Has little attraction to you or is adamant on a LTR. If you're looking for a quick f*ck you missed your turn off: NC and walk away. If you're looking for a LTR and she is still showing interest, keep your frame in check and be ready to walk away because it's very easy at this point to end up with little control and her using sex to manipulate you. Here's your LTR pamphlet.

2 Months+ - Finds you unattractive or is a prude. Generally the best case is you will have a passionless LTR. More likely case, you missed LTR Land and ended up in Friend Zone. Either way, just drive to the nearest airport, ditch your car, and GTFO.

F h michaels is a liar

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Ok well she didnt sleep with me and im getting weird vibes what would u guys do?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Yeah it getting redic be 5th date next week how fo u get a women emotionally turned on?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Bump