People need to ease up a bit. They forget that they were where you are once.
Boys will be boys. We've all drank far too much before. Big deal. It's a funny story.
I hear you. Growing up, i thought multi-dating was immoral, and most girls i had sex with became my girlfriend.
"Dating" was something for american tv shows, like friends or something. I thought it was a bit gay. Didn't understand it.
When you go from that, to changing things up, you can drink more on dates out of nerves. One time i'd started trying this SSRI pill, and drank really heavily on a date - mixing drinks. The girl was a c0cktail waitress before, and was very sensible with her drink. I was in the mood for a blowout. She was not amused lol
I ended up getting quite hammered, and a walk of shame to a trainstation. Then i proceeded to drunk text her embaressing stuff. Culminating in a night on my sofa throwing up all the drinks that i mixed. Never heard from that girl again. Still can't even tolerate the smell of cuban mojitos.
You live and learn.
Real scarcity is not being able to just laugh at stuff like that imo. People are very selective in the stories they tell to make themselves out to be a boss. Take it with a pinch of salt.
As for last minute resistance, sexual escalation, whatever, loads of great stuff around the web for that better than i could say in a post.
Just giving you perspective that this isn't such a big deal. You aren't some massive failure or anything. And it's just pretty funny tbh. Your game will get tighter in time, if you keep putting in the effort. Don't worry about it.
