"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I met this girl at a party a few weeks ago, but nothing happened..a lil flirting, but thats about it. She left before I could get a chance to initiate anything. A few days later she adds me on myspace and I get her screen name from there. We chat, but i'm rarely on AIM so its been on and off..talked about twice on AIM and not for long. She's pretty hot, but she's also a sophmore, and I'm a senior (is this off grounds?). My friend is having a party next week and I'm debating whether to invite her or not. Its either invite her to that, or go out to a movie w/ her sometime. Either way, I plan on talkin to her on AIM and getting her # so I can make plans.

Which option would you do? She seems like a good person to take to prom to since i don't want to take anyone I've hooked up with before or anyone that is just a friend. Invite her to the party, or invite her on a date?

I'm not sure how high her interest level is since its been a while since we met (~ a month) and we haven't talked much...I plan on chatting her a bit more on AIm, then when I see the right time, ask her for her # and tell her I'll call her up w/ plans sometime.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That's what I plan on doing. I'll probably take her out to a movie. I'm going to break the ice a bit on AIM where I can feel comfortable w/ her. I've found once I've done this, its A LOT easier to talk to them.
 
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