Ive been having a hard time approaching girls lately and I have to admit that my mind set is not good at all. I follow Tim and all of your advice to not care what other thinks of you but its hard to explain it just doesn’t click. I feel like my mind always tells me that the only way you can approach since you are a beginner is approach at the mall because if you approach at school you will mess up and deal with social consequences and if you mess up a lot will ruin your reputation. If you are a beginner is it recommended to approach girls first at the mall then at school? I know this is pathetic how im thinking but tomorrow is school so i have no chance to approach at the mall n need some motivation. I was following Tim from the flawless natural and listen to how he does his day game which i feel is more appropriate for school. Also sometimes I feel like when i approach girls I will stutter. I don't stutter when i talk to people but I use to stutter a lot when I was young n still feel I have it, which messes me up. Any advice??
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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