Ive been having a hard time approaching girls lately and I have to admit that my mind set is not good at all. I follow Tim and all of your advice to not care what other thinks of you but its hard to explain it just doesn’t click. I feel like my mind always tells me that the only way you can approach since you are a beginner is approach at the mall because if you approach at school you will mess up and deal with social consequences and if you mess up a lot will ruin your reputation. If you are a beginner is it recommended to approach girls first at the mall then at school? I know this is pathetic how im thinking but tomorrow is school so i have no chance to approach at the mall n need some motivation. I was following Tim from the flawless natural and listen to how he does his day game which i feel is more appropriate for school. Also sometimes I feel like when i approach girls I will stutter. I don't stutter when i talk to people but I use to stutter a lot when I was young n still feel I have it, which messes me up. Any advice??
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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