Need advice for my good friend

[LADawg49]

Wassup yall? Haven't been in here a while due to bein busy with school, family, friends, sargin(with success), etc. Anyways, my good buddy came from India in August 03 to do his masters at USC and has been here ever since(he graduates this friday). In around April 04, he met this Latina girl(her name is C) and they been girlfriend/boyfriend ever since. This guy(his name is N) is so whipped by her. At first, me and him used to have fun together, clown on each other and ****. However, today he won't talk that much, and he is not the same fun person he used to be. Durin the summer of 04, he intended on goin to India to meet his family from May-August. In India, he'd waste money by callin C like every day. Not only that, he decided to come back in early July just because of her. In addition in fall of 04, she went to England for 6 months yet he still loved her and now she is back here. They see each other almost everyday, talk on the phone with each other at least two or three times a day and he has changed completely. I mean if I try to tell him not to get too serious, he'll start getting angry and defensive. I mean, he is an excellent catch in that he just got a job starting out at 60K a year, masters degree in Computer Science so she could easily be using him as a meal ticket. Whats the best way for me to tell him not to get too serious, especially after not even a year?

 

[JackPrescott]

Tell him to break up with her, so she can start dating some mule dicckked mutherfocker, and to start having lots of "boys nights out" with his homies, and go home and mastrubate in his new pad.

 

[eoin2000]

Im affraid its too late....if we had only arrived a little sooner....maybe.

Does this girl love him? I mean, do you know her well enough to guage her true IL? Either way, its too late. SHE is the one with the power over him. She will have to break his heart into many small pieces before he will see her any differently. Anything you say against her or his relationship with her will earn you nothing but scorn. He might agree with you, just to get you to shut up.

Back away, my friend. I hear AFCism is contagious....

 

[chuchu]

You're saying you two are good friends. Then you said he's getting angry and defensive of you when ever you worried about him, my good friends don't do that to me. I'm sure you wont do that to your so call "good" friend right?

Just say what you have to say, then forget about it.

Some people need to learn it the hard way, or else they dont know what good they will have.

He just need to tast the sour before he can appreciate the sweets.

 

[LADawg49]

Yall givin some good advice. As for her interest level, id say her interest level is in the 40-49 percent range and his is in the 90's. Its not like he needs a green card cause his job is gonna provide him with one. When a womans interest level is below 51%, there is nothing u can do to increase the interest level. Once it goes below 40, she will actually leave.. So the only thing for him to do is to cut his losses right now before he is heartbroken. Yeah her interest level is probably low but the reason she is with him is cause he is a meal ticket. She can get a nice stable life from him.