"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Need advice - ectomorph diet

Jack12345

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Hey guys

I'm 1.7m tall and weight 65kg.

I'm doing squats, deadlift, chest and shoulder bar pushups.

I'm trying to eat big meals, most of carbohydrates and protein and there is a slow progression, but on the other hand heavy meals make me feel heavy and I'm afraid it has impact on my behavior and state when I'm going out. Any one deal with same issue and can share diet that works for him?

My diet is mostly rice, one meat per day (chicken or beaf), some salad, many sandwiches with chocolate, protein shake with 3 cups of milk, and multivitamin

Also I drink about 3 cups of coffee per day on work


Tnx!
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys

I'm 1.7m tall and weight 65kg.

I'm doing squats, deadlift, chest and shoulder bar pushups.

I'm trying to eat big meals, most of carbohydrates and protein and there is a slow progression, but on the other hand heavy meals make me feel heavy and I'm afraid it has impact on my behavior and state when I'm going out. Any one deal with same issue and can share diet that works for him?

My diet is mostly rice, one meat per day (chicken or beaf), some salad, many sandwiches with chocolate, protein shake with 3 cups of milk, and multivitamin

Also I drink about 3 cups of coffee per day on work


Tnx!
For ectomorph diet I like brad pitts 20/30/40 with 40 percent being protein I believe. I mean if you have to look at exactly what he does it's called zone diet. I think 20 percent being fats like avocado or coconut oil. 30 percent would probably be carbs whether you like protein pasta or brown rice. As an ectomorph I see zone diet most beneficial. Brad still looks good at his age and still does well in his movies. He might be on to something. There's also bars for zone diet like other diets catered to zone diet. So somewhat helpful by my standard a little barbaric. That's the best example of ectomorph I can think of. ttyl
 

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Don't be afraid of trash food like cake, cookies, milkshakes etc.

If you are bulking as a hard gainer, as long as you are getting in plenty of fruits and veg, calorie dense foods are your friend.

I get a lot of mileage out of Pop Tarts, 400 calories for a 2 pack which is so easy to eat, throw in a protein shake with a banana blended in, 500-600 calories and very easy to get down.
 

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If you struggle with eating enough to gain, like me, try it with liquid food. I have trouble with breakfast, I‘m just not hungry in the morning and I‘m used to intermittent fasting. But Right now I want to gain some, so I force myself to drink a shake in the morning.

Rice or almond milk, oat flakes, banana, protein powder, peanut butter, some spices to manage inflammation and maca. Easy calories.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't be afraid of trash food like cake, cookies, milkshakes etc.

If you are bulking as a hard gainer, as long as you are getting in plenty of fruits and veg, calorie dense foods are your friend.

I get a lot of mileage out of Pop Tarts, 400 calories for a 2 pack which is so easy to eat, throw in a protein shake with a banana blended in, 500-600 calories and very easy to get down.
Dont have pop tarts in my country, but have something similar will try it

My big issue with sweets is teeth care, it costs alot
 

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If you struggle with eating enough to gain, like me, try it with liquid food. I have trouble with breakfast, I‘m just not hungry in the morning and I‘m used to intermittent fasting. But Right now I want to gain some, so I force myself to drink a shake in the morning.

Rice or almond milk, oat flakes, banana, protein powder, peanut butter, some spices to manage inflammation and maca. Easy calories.
Tried it all when I was younger and it helped. Nowadays lazy as ****, probably need to get back to past habits
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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