need advice criticism welcome

[dj ben2]

ok so lately ive been noticing a bit of a pattern. lately the last few girls ive been hooking up keep saying no to sex. like they'll hook up with me and let me finger them but wont have sex. a few of my mates tell me its because they are fridgid and its just an age thing (18) and ive even found out from their girl friends that they do think im hot and are interested in me. now i cant help but think im doing something wrong because its happened with like the last 3 girls. theres always this 1 house everyone goes back to and crashes at and i have no problems getting these girls to sleep in my bed and hookup but they just wont have sex.

 

[sodbuster]

Depends on the school/area of the country/girls you are dealing with. IF you are in NYC with promiscuity rampant-you are n't doing so well. IF you are in the Bible Belt with conservative girls, you aren't going to get it so easily. You may actually have to DATE her first. Depends on how old the girls are, are they in the get drunk and hookup phase yet?

I guess we need to know what kind of a wall you are running into. Is it sheet rock or is it a foot thick brick wall? Good luck plowing through a brick wall.

 

[dj ben2]

ok well im from australia and random hookups are alot harder than in other countries but what baffles me is they will hookup with me, moan like all hell and start shaking and wriggling (in a good way) when i finger them but sex is a no-go zone ??? even when i find out from their friends that they like me. i mean wtf is that now its got me all paranoid that im doing something wrong

 

[drak_ool]

ok well im from australia and random hookups are alot harder than in other countries

Really? Cuz I visited Bali recently and Aussie girls were throwing themselves around at any guy, only the really fat and ugly chicks were not getting any action, while the hot ones were getting plowed night after night...

Going back to your question, you gotta use freeze-outs. Run a quick google search and you ll get hundreds of articles on it, here's the short version:

the action is escalating, clothes come flying off, you get your fingers wet, the girl moans and then she says the dreaded words "I can't/won't have sex with you". At this point you don't act piss, simply stop being intimate with her immediately. Get up from the bed, look for your cell phone, or simply lay back and stop touching her. Now she'll be puzzled by your attitude and annoyed that she's not getting stimulated sexually any longer. So she'll come for more.

You just keep repeating this cycle until her resistance finally wears off...