So here is the story. Me and my girl are together for 3 months. One saturday i started to like her, and after 2 weeks we first kissed, and started our relation. After 1 week we had sex.
I'm older than her, i'm 23 college, she's 18 high school. She's a incredible HB, that i love a lot and wanna keep with her. Her parents are extremly controling, and she can only go out monday afternoon, saturday nights, and sometimes friday, and that's it, so we dont see eachother that often. Which is good since we have fun together and dont get bored with too much being together.
We didnt have sex the last 10, 15 days, altough we've only been together 3 times that period. Last saturday and this one were the only ones we didnt do it.
This week i had a lot of exams, so i didnt reply her sms's readily cause i was really busy, and this saturday she complained about that, and that i didnt tell her i loved her a lot, that stuff i usually do. I didnt to that cause i noticed something about her, that she wasnt so much afectionate as she usually is, so i wasnt either in my msg's.
This saturday she went out, and instead of going to meet me where i was, went to our mutual friends, and told me to go there to meet her. I told her to come to where i was and we'd go together, but she insisted. When i got to the place, the 3 of them were arriving too (my girl, other girl and her bf, both my friends).
She wasnt kissing me, and said we needed to talk. First we'd have some fun dancing, and then when we would go home we'd talk in the way. So we did.
She asked me about a scratch i had in my nose some time ago, that i explained that i did it to myself by accident, really, and that she could call my friend that was present when it happened, she was thinking it had been a girl. Then she talked about the sms thing. Then talked about a girl that tryed to kiss me sometime ago, kissed me on the neck, and tryed to kiss me on the lips, but i pushed her away. And the other thing was that about sex, that she thinks we started doing it too son, and that i said some spicy stuff during the act that hurt her. We gave some nice kisses and i left her home, we didnt have time to talk all the stuff since she had to be home at 4 am.
Today we talked sms and she told me we needed to continue our convesation. We dont want to talk by msn so we are going out tomorrow to talk. I asked what was up, and she told me i wouldnt like to hear what she is going to say. I asked what was the subject, and she tells me she "she thinks things are not allright and she doesnt know what she wants, that she is being the most horrible person in the world..."
Then we setup talking all about it tomorrow, and she reminds me of taking the $ for a trip we setup to spain with a group of students. I ask her if what she wants to tell me tomorrow doesnt imply that she wants to go together to the trip, and she tells me she wants, that we planed going together and she wants me to go! And asks for me to promiss that i go to the trip! I ask: as boyfriends? And she tells me she doesnt know. I ask if we eventually broke up, why she wanted me to go, and if we'd see other ppl there at the trip, and she said of course she wouldnt, if i would? I tell her i wouldnt, only if we would really broke up, and she gets like "it's good to know that if we did, you wouldnt move a finger to stay with me". I told her that of course i would, that i want to be with her, and i expect her to also do for it, for us to keep together.
So what do you guys think about it? How should my atitude be tomorrow? And what about the trip thing, i have to decide if i go in 2 days, and the trip is in a month.
I'm older than her, i'm 23 college, she's 18 high school. She's a incredible HB, that i love a lot and wanna keep with her. Her parents are extremly controling, and she can only go out monday afternoon, saturday nights, and sometimes friday, and that's it, so we dont see eachother that often. Which is good since we have fun together and dont get bored with too much being together.
We didnt have sex the last 10, 15 days, altough we've only been together 3 times that period. Last saturday and this one were the only ones we didnt do it.
This week i had a lot of exams, so i didnt reply her sms's readily cause i was really busy, and this saturday she complained about that, and that i didnt tell her i loved her a lot, that stuff i usually do. I didnt to that cause i noticed something about her, that she wasnt so much afectionate as she usually is, so i wasnt either in my msg's.
This saturday she went out, and instead of going to meet me where i was, went to our mutual friends, and told me to go there to meet her. I told her to come to where i was and we'd go together, but she insisted. When i got to the place, the 3 of them were arriving too (my girl, other girl and her bf, both my friends).
She wasnt kissing me, and said we needed to talk. First we'd have some fun dancing, and then when we would go home we'd talk in the way. So we did.
She asked me about a scratch i had in my nose some time ago, that i explained that i did it to myself by accident, really, and that she could call my friend that was present when it happened, she was thinking it had been a girl. Then she talked about the sms thing. Then talked about a girl that tryed to kiss me sometime ago, kissed me on the neck, and tryed to kiss me on the lips, but i pushed her away. And the other thing was that about sex, that she thinks we started doing it too son, and that i said some spicy stuff during the act that hurt her. We gave some nice kisses and i left her home, we didnt have time to talk all the stuff since she had to be home at 4 am.
Today we talked sms and she told me we needed to continue our convesation. We dont want to talk by msn so we are going out tomorrow to talk. I asked what was up, and she told me i wouldnt like to hear what she is going to say. I asked what was the subject, and she tells me she "she thinks things are not allright and she doesnt know what she wants, that she is being the most horrible person in the world..."
Then we setup talking all about it tomorrow, and she reminds me of taking the $ for a trip we setup to spain with a group of students. I ask her if what she wants to tell me tomorrow doesnt imply that she wants to go together to the trip, and she tells me she wants, that we planed going together and she wants me to go! And asks for me to promiss that i go to the trip! I ask: as boyfriends? And she tells me she doesnt know. I ask if we eventually broke up, why she wanted me to go, and if we'd see other ppl there at the trip, and she said of course she wouldnt, if i would? I tell her i wouldnt, only if we would really broke up, and she gets like "it's good to know that if we did, you wouldnt move a finger to stay with me". I told her that of course i would, that i want to be with her, and i expect her to also do for it, for us to keep together.
So what do you guys think about it? How should my atitude be tomorrow? And what about the trip thing, i have to decide if i go in 2 days, and the trip is in a month.
