"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok this is going to be kind of long.. So if you dont want to "Waste" your time dont read it but i really need help.. and dont want to be flamed..

Ok well tonight im going bowling its called "rock n bowl" dark black lights laser lights music etc.. Im going with a few friends and some girls.

Anyway my ex gf we broke up about 3 weeks ago is going to be there...with her sister and a few friends and some kid from outa town..

and she wants me to talk to this kid from outa town and tell him that when me and her went to the drive in we did more then make out.. (the night i asked her out was at the drive in) and anyway.. Why would she do this.. becuase me and her didnt even make out just kissed..

My thoughts are..

1. to try to get us to fight

2. to brag

3.(friends idea) maybe she wants to test me cuz shes jelous ive been with other girls and see if il do somthing like this and be man enough

I mean I can think of tons of reasons why.. maybe to impress him? i have no clue thats why im asking you guys for help... thanks ahead of time.. , Mike
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

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Dont do what she tells you to do. You two aren't even together now. If it were me, I would say "sure, ill tell that guy that we did more than kiss", then lie and say something else to him.
 

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i should tell the guy that she was horrible.. hahaha

EDIT: could this just quite simply be a dumb little girl game just somthing she wants me to say to see the kids reaction..
 
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Umm here's my idea. Tell her you can't lie. IF she want's him to belive you did more your gonna have to do more.

See how she likes that one.
 

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Don't even worry about it. She's your ex, she's trying to play games and get you to lie to this guy for whatever reason. Keep one thing in mind, this girl is in your past, you don't owe her anything.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by DarkfalconIV
Umm here's my idea. Tell her you can't lie. IF she want's him to belive you did more your gonna have to do more.

See how she likes that one.
This is good. Obviously if she wants you to do something it is somehow benefiting her.
 

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LOL. My first good Idea ^^

Somebody make this a sticky. Its a phenominom
 

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Ok I went.. this guy that was supposed to talk to me pussied out.. i gave him a what the **** are you lookin at look.. anyway my ex kept waving at me and i just kinda ignored her.. i was with 3 HBs and a guy friend.. and in the end her sister was like come here so i was all yeah? and shes all we just wanted to say hi to you.. so i walked off after i said hi heh..
 
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