"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dustmuffin

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Girl texted me to verify our date this evening. I replied. I ahve been having issues with my texting. Several people have not received my texts. Should I text again to make sure she got my text or just call? I sent the text an hour ago. She usually jumps on my texts. But she is working could be many things.

Should I text her and say that t-mobile has been having network issues and did she receive my text?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. Yes, but only if it's within like a 30 second time frame. Makes it seem like an accident or network error.

2. Why did you send her a text after the date? Let her come to you. If she doesn't come to you within a week, setup another date. You might have killed a bit of attraction by doing that though.
 

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I didn't do anything. She texted back. So when in doubt. Do nothing.
 
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