"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dustmuffin

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Girl texted me to verify our date this evening. I replied. I ahve been having issues with my texting. Several people have not received my texts. Should I text again to make sure she got my text or just call? I sent the text an hour ago. She usually jumps on my texts. But she is working could be many things.

Should I text her and say that t-mobile has been having network issues and did she receive my text?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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1. Yes, but only if it's within like a 30 second time frame. Makes it seem like an accident or network error.

2. Why did you send her a text after the date? Let her come to you. If she doesn't come to you within a week, setup another date. You might have killed a bit of attraction by doing that though.
 

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I didn't do anything. She texted back. So when in doubt. Do nothing.
 
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