need adive- online seduction

[Immaculate]

hey fellas what's up? I got the attention of a cute girl in a dating site and i emailed her with a witty email I had to think of for a long time, and she replied:

I have to admit, that was very good! although i have NO clue how many women you do that to, but I bet you get great results!!
lol
ttyl

what should I email back to her? any advice? I need to be smooth and don't want to say the wrong thing.. thanks alot!!

Immac

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

be funny and abit ****y.... Yes be C+F.. I can't believe I said that.

Be like "Well i just send out about 300 a day and see gives the best answers and I might answer if I feel like it" or be funnier and less ****y..

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
be funny and abit ****y.... Yes be C+F.. I can't believe I said that.

Be like "Well i just send out about 300 a day and see gives the best answers and I might answer if I feel like it" or be funnier and less ****y..

thanks.. you guys are the best for real.. i may need more advice later with more replies.. I admit I'm not good at the on-line thing.. i appreciate it..

anyone else think of anything I should say back?

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

the great thing with online is that if you get her into instantmessaging you'll usually have her cause then you'll get under her skin much much easier.

 

[Immaculate]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
be funny and abit ****y.... Yes be C+F.. I can't believe I said that.

Be like "Well i just send out about 300 a day and see gives the best answers and I might answer if I feel like it" or be funnier and less ****y..

how can I make that more funny and less ****y?

i know man this is pathetic but I'm learning

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Immaculate
thanks.. you guys are the best for real.. i may need more advice later with more replies.. I admit I'm not good at the on-line thing.. i appreciate it..

anyone else think of anything I should say back?

Stop setting yourself for a long email courtship, its a waste of time plus you can say something stupid in your ramblings that could make her IL go south.

If you've did well enough you should send a SHORT funny note to her telling her that the two of you should meet.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Online seduction??? There is no such thing. What you say online means nothing to a girl until you and her meet in real life.

Your next move should be sending her a fluff email asking her about herself. After that in the 3rd email get a pic from her if you havnt already. 4th email fluff a little more then ask for her number at the end of the email.

If you havnt gotten a phone number by the end of the 4th email exchange then next her.

 

[Austin Allegro]

True dat.

You only need to send about four emails, to get her attention/IL up, her picture if she doesn't have one on her profile, and to spot any obvious red flags.

After that it's number close or next. I have used this on about 12 internet girls, none refused to give their number and only one asked for my number instead. I did and provisionally nexted her, only to have her call me a few days later.

I'd also next someone who refused to send a picture, though that's never happened.

 

[squirrels]

Meet her ASAP...and once you meet in person, no more E-mail/IM.

I made a similar mistake recently...this girl and I had been chatting on IM and we went out one night. From that point on she was IMing me non-stop, and occasionally asking when we were gonna get together again, etc...

We were supposed to be getting together tonight, but after a month of talking to her on AIM, I could sense her IL waning. At first she wanted to come up to my place, but then she started complaining that it was too far, then that she might be tired, etc etc...

Take it off the computer.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Dust 2 Dust
Online seduction??? There is no such thing. What you say online means nothing to a girl until you and her meet in real life.

Your next move should be sending her a fluff email asking her about herself. After that in the 3rd email get a pic from her if you havnt already. 4th email fluff a little more then ask for her number at the end of the email.

If you havnt gotten a phone number by the end of the 4th email exchange then next her.

If there isn't such a thing as online seduction, why is it that there are women who would exchange emails forever if they could? The are drawn into the romance novel type mystery of sharing something intimate with someone who they do not know, even choosing the fantasy of it rather than meeting in real life.

I wouldn't send her fluff email either. First and foremost, what the h3ll are you going to talk about when you do meet? Next, all the AFCs do this. How many emails do you think she gets asking the same thing? You will sound just like the rest of the AFCs responding to her, and she should be interested in you for what reason?

And another thing (if you haven't noticed yet, I'm on a rant), after three emails get a pic??? What is all of this "After the third...", this is CRAP! If you haven't gotten her IL high enough to send you her pic after your first chat (email), beef up your game!

What are you going to do if she isn't your type? Tell her, "Well I was interested in you when you were sending me all those emails but I was turned of when I saw your pic." Duh..

THEN after the forth email you ask for a phone number??? Do you want to meet this woman any time this century??? With all of the emails and phone calls you may not get a chance to meet her until two weeks down the line.

By that time a DJ with his act together would have swept her up and she would easily forget about you. Ever wonder why all your emails seemed to go alright but then she losses interest all of a sudden? Well, a DJ came by! And you wonder why guys are turned off by online dating, they don't know what they are doing.

Check out this thread. I list some things you should know to be successful online.

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