"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need abit of avice on approach

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demonic

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So in the last week i've been able to become 100% comfortable in my own skin and my confidence is stupidly high.

So i want to nail this approach stuff as i NEVER approach and i'm fed up with being a ***** about it.
My problem is not with approaching (think i can do it now) it's the fact girls are always in groups or in 2's.Now this is pretty daunting to a guy who's never approached and is alittle nervy of the unknown lol.

I approached 1 girl last night who was on her OWN, got shot down by her ignoring me but so what.

So i'm just asking for some advice on how to manage this?, should i just wait untill i find girls who are alone or what?...i mean it's only a problem as i'm new to this and WANT to get this part of my life sorted.

Thanks for hearing me out guys

Demonic
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Señor Fingers

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Loners are the easiest to approach. They have no choice but to listen to you! The key is to be as non-threatening as possible. A woman on her own feels a certain degree of vulnerability and you have to have a gentle pimp hand if you want to make her putty in your arms.

Two-sets are fun too, but only after you practice practice practice. As a direct result of your screw-ups, you eventually see a pattern in the social exchanges, each making you a better chess-master. You start to read people in advance and even anticipate their reactions, which makes you look sharp and intriguing.

If there is any golden rule I've picked up for hitting up two or more girls, its that you absolutely must win over the whole group. My best results were from instances where I paid just as much attention (sometimes more) to the friends as the target.

There is a whole other dynamic when you get other players mixed into the equation, but its always best to crawl before you try to run the 100-meter dash ;)
 
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iqqi

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Señor Fingers said:
Loners are the easiest to approach. They have no choice but to listen to you! The key is to be as non-threatening as possible. A woman on her own feels a certain degree of vulnerability and you have to have a gentle pimp hand if you want to make her putty in your arms.
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I can be a real b!tch when I am alone, because I am vulnerable. AND if I am having a bad hair day, whew. I feel sorry for the lad...!

I hate to admit that.
 
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