"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Need abit of avice on approach

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demonic

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So in the last week i've been able to become 100% comfortable in my own skin and my confidence is stupidly high.

So i want to nail this approach stuff as i NEVER approach and i'm fed up with being a ***** about it.
My problem is not with approaching (think i can do it now) it's the fact girls are always in groups or in 2's.Now this is pretty daunting to a guy who's never approached and is alittle nervy of the unknown lol.

I approached 1 girl last night who was on her OWN, got shot down by her ignoring me but so what.

So i'm just asking for some advice on how to manage this?, should i just wait untill i find girls who are alone or what?...i mean it's only a problem as i'm new to this and WANT to get this part of my life sorted.

Thanks for hearing me out guys

Demonic
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Señor Fingers

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Loners are the easiest to approach. They have no choice but to listen to you! The key is to be as non-threatening as possible. A woman on her own feels a certain degree of vulnerability and you have to have a gentle pimp hand if you want to make her putty in your arms.

Two-sets are fun too, but only after you practice practice practice. As a direct result of your screw-ups, you eventually see a pattern in the social exchanges, each making you a better chess-master. You start to read people in advance and even anticipate their reactions, which makes you look sharp and intriguing.

If there is any golden rule I've picked up for hitting up two or more girls, its that you absolutely must win over the whole group. My best results were from instances where I paid just as much attention (sometimes more) to the friends as the target.

There is a whole other dynamic when you get other players mixed into the equation, but its always best to crawl before you try to run the 100-meter dash ;)
 
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iqqi

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Señor Fingers said:
Loners are the easiest to approach. They have no choice but to listen to you! The key is to be as non-threatening as possible. A woman on her own feels a certain degree of vulnerability and you have to have a gentle pimp hand if you want to make her putty in your arms.
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I can be a real b!tch when I am alone, because I am vulnerable. AND if I am having a bad hair day, whew. I feel sorry for the lad...!

I hate to admit that.
 
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