"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know it's too late for this one. The time has gone. However, I still need to get an idea as far as openers go. I just never know what to say. I'm usually a quiet guy, so I normally don't say much anyways.

Anyways, let's say you're watching the fireworks that are at the park down the street. You notice this cute girl next to you. What would you say to grab her attention?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hey, so r u usuallly drawn to flashing lights.

I can only give u advice for what works for me, but might b different for u. either way u got to experiment. Now the things u can open with is the situation "fireworks", "park" and "night"

firstly its late and had long night so don't expect to much from my openers lol
, but ill give u a idea, because u can really open with anything its more what u got to say after that counts.

now for park maybe something like "omdz this park is like a maze, could u help me find my way out"

for the night "hey its pretty late isn't it past ur bed time, lol i am just kidding, but u got a very young about u, how old r u?"

now thats the situation and now u can comment on her, maybe she has high heels "my feet kill me in my shoes i have no idea how u can walk in those", u might b curious about where shes from "hmmm u know what i can't help it, but i am very curious where ur from, i think ur french right" HB: haha u got it " o jem apelle automatic comme appelle tu"

Those r the ones i usually use, basically u look at what makes her unique or the situation unique and comment on it. U might b more of a canned man though just open with "hey i need a quick females opinion i was thinking of being a bit wild and dying my hair blue, now tell me the truth do u think it wud look awesome or not?" or something even like "do u like salted popcorn or sweet" It dosn't really matter because opening is going to b the easiest thing to do, its about ur game after that matter. U cud give the most crappist opener and if u have a steady game afterwards it will work.

Now i am just giving u my opinion dude make what u want of it, but i tell u something if u don't experiment u will always b in the same position u r in now. So find out what works best for u.
 

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Simple observation is usually the best starting point to formulating an entry. The start has little to do with game its once youre in the door that it comes into play.
Just gotta play by ear.
 

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If she's next to you that means she was giving you approach invitation, so you can open with "how are you doing/ how do you like the fireworks?" or anything else. Approach invitation is when a chick hangs out in your proximity, it doesn't matter if her back's towards you. Unless the situation forces her to be there.
 

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Witty observation followed by ****y humour if its an HB8+.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'd say to her...you look like you could be a firecracker but I could be mistaken..if she has any personality and sense of humor at a time fireworks are going off she'll get that your just trying to make conversation with a little humor a good thing.

I know it's lame but then after you get her in the truck put in a CD and play as you drive down the road;)

Yeeeaaahhhh

When I look in her eyes
It aint no surprise
Sparks start a flyin like the 4th of July

She gets me so hot, my heart starts a pumpin
When we get to kissin, there aint no stoppin'

When it comes to love
She aint no slacker
My little darlin is a firecracker

When I light the fuse
I gotta get back quick
You gotta be careful with a dynamite stick

Son of a gun she fun to handle
And she packs a punch like a roman candle
She a pack of black cats in a red paper wrapper
My little darlin is a firecracker

We might not ought to take a roll in the hay
Cause we'd burn the barn down one of these days
Were a match made in heaven
And it aint no joke.
But Id sure I hate to see it go up in smoke

We got a good thing going
And it feels so right
Shes a firecracker
Shes the light of my life.

She goes off with a great big BANG
Boys I tell ya its a beautiful thing
She takes off you better hang on tight

Shes a blonde bottle rocket
In the middle of the night

When she makes love shes a Heart attacker
My little darlin is a Firecracker

We might not ought to take a roll in the hay
Cause we'd burn the barn down one of these days
Were a match made in heaven
And it aint no joke.
But Id sure I hate to see it go up in smoke

We got a good thing going
And it feels so right
Shes a firecracker
Shes the light of my life.

Uhhh Haaa

We got a good thing going
And it feels so right
Shes a firecracker
Shes the light of my life.

We got a good thing going
And it feels so right
Shes a firecracker
Shes the light of my life.

Shes a Firecracker
Shes the light of my Life

Firecracker
Firecracker

Whooooo hoooo

Firecracker
Firecracker

BANG

Firecracker
Firecracker

Josh Turner - Firecracker

LoneSilver
 

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Automatic said:
I know it's too late for this one. The time has gone. However, I still need to get an idea as far as openers go. I just never know what to say. I'm usually a quiet guy, so I normally don't say much anyways.

Anyways, let's say you're watching the fireworks that are at the park down the street. You notice this cute girl next to you. What would you say to grab her attention?
If you can´t think of an opener how about this one: You walk up to the girl and go "Let me ask you something. let's say you're watching the fireworks that are at the park down the street. You notice this cute girl next to you. What would you say to grab her attention?"
 
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I would say..."hey cutie, what a tite ass you have there..how about hangin wit me and I'lll give ya a spin on my ****... then I'll buy you a stuffed crocodile or some ****.. come on baby..I wanna **** you.
 

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Something tells me that you should change your screen name to EricInTheOutHouse.

LoneSilver

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Or you could say.. "hey I just **** my pants..can ya smell it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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