"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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need a shirt fashion tip

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ok, i'm a tall guy (6'2),on a skinny side,broad shoulders,with long arms and legs. I always had trouble deciding what t-shirt(and shirt) length i should wear and how long the sleeves should be(for a t-shirt).

I know its hard to say based on a description alone, but basically i'm asking if t-shirt sleeves should reach the elbows and by how much should it overlap the jeans at the waist?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The solution to your woes is to go shirtless!:rolleyes:
 

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Unless you are as hairy as a gorilla!
 

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aight, tomorrow i'm going shirtless to my psychology class.

and from there straight to a psychiatric ward.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ok

hey its easy man

try as long as the shirt bottom is at the wait line its good, any higher it would be gay,, a little lower then the belt is cool 2,



sleeve lenth should cover ahlf your bicep that way you get 2 show of the other half,


hoped i help later man
 

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Re: ok

Originally posted by DraGon_luv
hey its easy man

try as long as the shirt bottom is at the wait line its good, any higher it would be gay,, a little lower then the belt is cool 2,



sleeve lenth should cover ahlf your bicep that way you get 2 show of the other half,


hoped i help later man
I'm in partial agreement with this statement. I'm pretty much the same body type as the two of you so I feel I can participate based on experience

If the shirt line is to the waist (usually a large) the sleeve should go half way down your bicep, to show off the rest. A good large shirt should fit to your body well and bring out your body profile.

If you have a shirt that goes below the waist (usually an XL or something), you should have a sleeve that goes down to your elbowjoint or maybe just short of it. Usually larger shirts like this won't accent your profile so you want to be congruent with the whole appearence and have everything about it be long. This is true with long sleeve t-shirts too. I bought a few L longsleeve tshirts and they just don't fit the same way an XL long sleeve does. Usually the arms turn up short cause your arms are too big.
 
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Okay, here's my opinion (from over 4 years in retail)... T-shirts that go down to your elbow? What are you, in a cult or something? Good god, you shouldn't ever wear anything that outrageous unless it's halloween or you're trying to make a political statement. Here's what you should do. Go to any store in the mall and try on T-shirts until you find one that fits you. It should come to right around the beltline or a bit below it, as someone else stated, but the sleeves shouldn't come but a few inches down your arm. Oh, about the stores - while I like A&F, I wouldn't recommend you check out their T's unless you already know how to wear one. The sleeves on theirs are a little TOO short, due to their "muscle tee fit".

Oh yeah, and to find out what shirt shirt size you are (not T-shirt), go to a department store and have one of the clerks in the men's section take your measurements with the stuff they have there for it. Their job is to get you into a shirt that fits you correctly; whether you buy it is your choice... but at least you'll know what size you are from now on out.

Moved to Anything Else...
 

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Originally posted by diablo
T-shirts that go down to your elbow?
lol i dont know where you got that from, but the person was probably talking about sleeve length.

though, thanks for the tips all.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oops.. meant to say 'T-shirt sleeves'. :p Still, I can't help but think that would look pretty goofy if a guy had them all the way to his elbows.
 

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Tight makes might. Women aren't attracted to male fashion - they dig the male body. Who cares if you're skinny? Shake Wiggle Wiggle.
 
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