"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need a romantic weekend getaway spot for cheap :)

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so me and my gf want to go away for the weekend before summer is over, the only thing is i have no idea where to go nor do i have alot of money. i wanted to spend 400 to 500 dollars maximum. i was thinking of maybe a resort in upstate newyork? or can anyone recommend a place that would be romantic fun and something she and i will remember that is 500$ including hotel and travel?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i live in nyc btw, so anything that i can take the LIRR to or a greyhound bus would be good
 

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Check out site59.com, they specialize in this kind of stuff. Also travelzoo.com.
 
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