"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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need a reponse quick!

sexy_kuta

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haha im talking to this girl on a site and we got to fluff talk
then shes talks about how she likes to play soccer

her:i've been playin basically my whole life since
i was atlest 5

me: wanna teach me?

her:i would lol but meh... i unno

me:haha how come? i wouldnt want you to miss a perfect opporturnity you know

her:meh not so perfect.

shes like a 9.5 hb guys.shes testing me haha. ***** shield!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shes not testing you, shes just not into you.

"You're afraid i'm gonna school you huh?"
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
Shes not testing you, shes just not into you.

"You're afraid i'm gonna school you huh?"
well why would she reply? she was nice and talking alot then BOOM she changed her whole additude..
she put up a biitch shiled of out no where
 

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I do that.

I get tired of talking to people so I just start being short with them, and then usually I just leave.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Skilla_Staz said:
I do that.

I get tired of talking to people so I just start being short with them, and then usually I just leave.
i see, well you do have a point, but she doesnt know me. so i cant blame her.
most guys would reply with anger like "what did u say ho" or reply negatively. i wanna neg hit her kind of
something funny. i dont care if i piss her off i just wanna take advantage of this sistuation!
show her i got balls to say **** to her
 

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Tell her 'Well I've never played, but I still think I could beat you!'
 

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Tear Gas said:
sounds like a ***** bro, i advise you kill her
lol shes a 9.5, maybe a 10... so she gets boys hittin on her all the time, shee puts a ***** shield to weave out the pussies/afcs.. so i need a way show that i aint one of those times
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol i said ""You're afraid i'm gonna school you huh?""
 
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