Need a Reality Check

[Nicotine&Ginseng]

Hey there, new to all this. Very quick run down of myself.

- 31. 5'10. 200lbs (working on getting some muscles), fairly handsome.
- East Coast of Canada
- I work in glass. I make, presently, 2k a month (Covid knocked me on my ass finically this last year and a half, savings drained, moved back in with parents)

Exp. with women has been varied, not many lays, mostly oral encounters.

Most recent sexual encounter was a single mother that looked nothing like her pics, and was easily 30 pounds overweight. Had a brief stint of "Oneitis" for her for about three days, now I'm over her. We follow each other on social media and she's in to whacky "TradCon" (after she did her stint in Europe ****ing and smoking etc, worthless degree in anthropology and the debt to match it) & that Tarot/Astrology" gunk. She's constantly having smoke blown up her ass (typical "OMG QUEEN"!!! BS) blah blah.

Anyways, the "reality check" I need is, as I begin my descent into learning game, putting on muscle, making money and building my frame uhhh how do I go about gaming women when I...

1.) Live with my parents.
2.) Covid19™ has made things so whacky and jarring for everyone.
3.) Don't really have the money to do much (have to pay off a tiny bit of debt before I can begin saving in earnest. I have 7k in crypto but that's all my assets atm)

Anyways, hope this is in the right place, thanks for any feedback, no matter how harsh, I really just need a smack in the right direction.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Change career? If you were there before covid that is a different problem. Begin planning on coming up. Level up. Whatever that is FOR YOU.

I am a chronic people watcher. Proponent of game. The past year, a lot of dudes were knocked off and on their ass. At which time, women who moved in before just as easy moved out. Many marriages were ended.

Begin putting together a plan. Still get girls but for sport. Just cause but purpose is king. A book every man should read is "way of the superior man" by David Deida.

 

[Bible_Belt]

I have rarely had 7k of anything to my name at any one time, but I have also never lived with either of my parents since age 18. You must actually like your parents, if you would rather live with them than sell the crypto. I would live under a bridge before living with either of my parents, and I am not kidding. I have the bridge picked out. When you talk to girls, you live with these two people because you love them to death and you genuinely enjoy being around them. It has nothing to do with money.

 

[Bingo-Player]

You can forget about women for a year maybe two ...you need to sort yourself out

chicks are nice additions to life but they should never ever be your primary focus

put all your energy into finding ways of making more money do the gym move back into your own place

then in a few years you can start worrying about getting laid

 

[soulforge]

Your entire purpose right now should be about leveling up.. Take the opportunity of living with your parents for now to save and invest as much money as possible.

Once you get your own place, your outgoings bills etc will be much higher.

Right now, relationships should be out of the question.. Getting laid is fine though.

Save money, get out of your parents house, get that muscular body. Learn game & then the woman will come to you

 

[Nicotine&Ginseng]

Thank you for the feedback everyone.

 

[TheCharmingGuy]

Your entire purpose right now should be about leveling up.. Take the opportunity of living with your parents for now to save and invest as much money as possible.

Once you get your own place, your outgoings bills etc will be much higher.

Right now, relationships should be out of the question.. Getting laid is fine though.

Save money, get out of your parents house, get that muscular body. Learn game & then the woman will come to you

Self-improvement is vital. If you improve yourself the women will come to you. Yes, they will come to you. Not only because of what a great guy you are now you’ve focused on improving yourself, but also because they see that you are willing to work hard to build a better life for yourself.
A life of making 2k a month, living with your parents, etc. will only bring you down if you are not working to improve it. It’s the improvement that matters and that women are attracted to, not where you actually are on the ladder of success. Yes, women are attracted to success, but they are more attracted to a person who is constantly making themselves more successful than someone who makes 100k a year but doesn’t work very hard or seem to have any goals. The key is initiative. If you have initiative women will follow.
You don’t have to “achieve” women like you have to achieve most other things in life such as wealth, social status, etc. If you achieve all those other things, the women will come naturally.
Good luck my friend.