need a quick tip

[coffin]

ima try to make this short.
this girl i went to school with and was a friend of mine contacted me a few months ago. i talked to her asked her out and she said yes. well i was drinkin alot and one day i was really trashed and said alot of **** i shouldnt of said. i dont know what i said but she cut contact completely. 2day she randomly messaged me on myspace after she had ignored me for so long. should i respond or should i just get on with my life. ive stopped drinkin as much was gettin drunk everyday for a while now like 2 times a month if that.

 

[PeeGee]

The tip is not to care what you might have said.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

Man do whatever you want. I don't understand why you guys need validation from some random strangers on the internet on what to do.

Anyway , if you really want an answer , i would try to game her again. Just don't get too attached to the outcome and don't put high expectations in this case.

 

[Allurre]

If you blurted a bunch of foul stuff that were offensive and demeaning, then you owe her an apology.

Schedule for a date later and pick the vibe back up.

 

[Cinamon]

Respond to her message, but dont initiate any going out offers. If she was a real friend, she would have told you what you said and give you a chance to redeem yourself, which she didnt do. Be aloof, and if she asks you whats up, say she didnt value your relationship/friendship enough to tell you what happened and work it out, and that you feel that you cant contribute more to this if she is not prepared to put the same in. then sit back and watch... she will come running after you cause you are so sensitive. Let us know how you get on x