"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Texting a girl I have alot of instrest in.....unfortunatly she knows it.

Asked her if she wanted to go out on Wednesday.

She replied saying shes not free all week x . (I know she could be if she wants)

So i text back saying "Oh well. Was going to take you out somewhere nice. Will have to take a dif girl now. x "

She text back saying "Have fun with them, Im sure they will be wonderful..."


im looking for some good C+F line but i cant think of anything....

Any ideas.

Quick replies needed.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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hahahaha are you familiar with the term 'digging your own grave'? I mean I have heard of some pretty ****ty conversations with women, this is up there with "what do you think of me?".

You shouldn't reply you screwed up any chance you ever had with this girl.
 

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its too late for a good comeback reply..
good comebacks replys ocurr within a second or two.
you are at least a day late.
 

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Either she is testing you or she doesnt care. What are you past relations with her? By the way,try to stray away from texting.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blinkwatt said:
Either she is testing you or she doesnt care. What are you past relations with her? By the way,try to stray away from texting.

We have had a LTR in the past.....Shes now single again....btw i used the line about the another girl in a funny way because she knows about my "reputation" and we were joking about it the other day.

What kind of test can you see there....

Im really stuck for a reply on this one. May just ring her.....
 

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librito said:
its too late for a good comeback reply..
good comebacks replys ocurr within a second or two.
you are at least a day late.

A day late......the text convo was less than 20 mins ago???
 

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AngelusPUA said:
Man don't bother you screwed it up.
Man.....Shut the fvck up......


Your not exactly any help here. Save your "next her" her post for some AFC.
 

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Frequently Asked Question #6

6. How do you handle being given excuses instead of a phone #? Or being turned down for dates? Or being stood up/blown off/’I have a boyfriend’

A: You don’t stick around for more! Excuses mean low interest: it DOESN’T MATTER IF THEY’RE TRUE OR NOT. Just shrug and end the conversation. "I'm too busy for the indefinite future" means no. Don't waste 1 minute of your life calling back for another rejection.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Angels is rude, but right. This girl is not busy. She would rather watch Desperate Housewives and eat ice cream than have a beer with you. No amount of CF will fix that. It doesn't seem worth the work.
 

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What do you expect you fool? You came out and showed yourself as some insecure, pitiful child. I don't think I have ever made a post saying "next her" but you have seriously screwed it up with this girl.

Tomatoes said:
So i text back saying "Oh well. Was going to take you out somewhere nice. Will have to take a dif girl now. x "
What were you thinking with that line? It is childish, immature and downright stupid. I would put a bet down, I would actually put 100k down right now that as soon as she received that message she rolled her eyes and giggled because she has you wrapped around her finger.

You need to stop reading seduction book and even in seduction books when they say 'make her think there are other girls in your life' they say to do it in a subtle way. You come here asking for advice on a conversation you screwed up and you have the balls to tell me to shut up when I slap you with the reality of your situation.

4 Mistakes you made

-You gave her the upper hand by making her know you are more interested in her than she is in you.
-You didn't back off when she rejected you for the first date proposal.
-You displayed your insecurities and your unmanly behavior with that message you sent.
-You corresponded with her through text messaging.

Everything you have done here reeks of immaturity and insecurity.
 

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I love proving you AFC's wrong.....decided i was getting as much help from you lot as a flacid donkey so i put my psycological thinking cap on and thought hmm......If shes going to call my bluff. I will make her look like shes overreacting.

Sent her a reply saying Woah! No need to be sarcastic. I was having a laugh. Secured a date with her on my next day off....

People wonder why i only take advice from 1-2% of people on this site....

This has just answered it.

Thanks for nothing fellas :up:

Sarge On!
 

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Well either you are lying or she is really dumb. No girl in her right mind would fall for "Oh well. Was going to take you out somewhere nice. Will have to take a dif girl now. x ".

Maybe I shouldn't be advising you on your situation anyway because I tend to go for the rich, sophisticated, smart, lawyer type with self respect. So if I used that line she would next me like I was an idiot. The type of women you go for on the other hand obviously..... Well I don't even need to say it do I?
 

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The message wasn't so bad (she may have taken it as a corny joke), but bad part was she said "I'm busy all week." That means no. What did you do? Ask about next week, the week after that, and the week after that until she gave up and said yes?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I sent back saying it was a joke....I think she thought I actually ment it.

She just replied "Lol. Im free next tuesday if thats anygood. x"


Sure. :up:
 

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That's the problem with text messages!

But Angelus - I also think your full of ****. What girl is going to next you for a joke? I saw it as a joke so I didn't really see what the problem was with that but now it's obvious that she took it seriously.

Again I agree with Phyzzle - The bad part was the busy all week line. However she probably was just busy all week. Sometimes we read too much into that. If a girl has a life and isn't sad sitting in and watching "sex and the city" everynight and isn't desparate. That line might just be, wait for it, the truth.
 

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I'd make something out of the fact she said "them" instead of "her".

In any case, If it were me (and i'll probably get flamed for this) I'dve just replied with "Thats a shame. I wanted to see you x" Stops all the pissing about.
 

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Tomatoes said:
Man.....Shut the fvck up......


Your not exactly any help here. Save your "next her" her post for some AFC.

but its true. So you shut the **** up. YOu came here asking for advice, not us. Learn the game or gtfo
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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