"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need a quick advice on this post-Fclose situation

mackdaddy27

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hey guys,

I closed this milf on a day 2. The thing is, I don't want a relationship with her. But I sense, that she may want to have one.

I was wondering if its okay if I called her up and day "I am not really looking for a relationship right now, but I like hanging out/going out with you ...and we can do stuff together like sex...."

Basically I want to tell her, that I am not interested in any commitment, but I still want to screw her.

1) Do I need to make that explicit ?

2) Is it okay if I said something like that, would she still be down to screw?

3) Is it better to just drop it and move on to another target?

Just want an opinion on what to say, in this situation where, I want to continue to screw her, but only as a 'friends w benefits' what I want to
avoid at all costs, is to have her start calling me up every day and start thinking we have a relationship.....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alphamale1821

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simple answer: i'm not looking for anything serious right just looking to have some fun . It's basic and to the point.
 

mackdaddy27

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Alphamale1821 said:
simple answer: i'm not looking for anything serious right just looking to have some fun . It's basic and to the point.
that is my question...

Do you need to say that ? Or will it just be assumed if you act aloof and distant
 

Warrior74

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bunch of lame advice in this thread. just keep ****ing her until she ask where its going. UNTIL SHE ASKS! Don't go volunteering info like a chump! What would you do that for? When she does ask, then tell her you enjoy spending time with her and you want to see where its headed. If she pushes you to go farther than you want to go, tell her honestly you aren't ready to go to the next level. Expect her to leave you at that point.

Basically...when you were doing your 'getting- to- know- you- stage', that's when you should have spit your contract of what you were looking for. You have to remember this.... KNOW THIS AS A FACT.

If she is not your girlfriend, and you don't want her to be...at some point she will break it off.

FACT.


So just enjoy it while it last, while looking for the next one. This is a basic rule of being a player. It's cop and blow in this game. You cop (get) a chic and eventually she blows out (leaves) because you will not commit.

Don't go trying to put a definition on it to her, or explain it to her. You explain to women through action.

Plus the fact that they want to figure it out is half the fun..."is he serious? where is this going? does he want to commit?" you need for her to ask these questions to herself. The way you are going...your not gonna get to hit that a second time trying to explain things.

Yes this is a dirty game...if you are not ready to be involved in the dirty business, get a squared up normal girlfriend. Otherwise...its play or be played.

Don't let these chumps here mess up your steady sex. You can probably get a couple of months out of this chic before she blows out.
 

mackdaddy27

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Warrior74 said:
Yes this is a dirty game...if you are not ready to be involved in the dirty business, get a squared up normal girlfriend. Otherwise...its play or be played.

Don't let these chumps here mess up your steady sex. You can probably get a couple of months out of this chic before she blows out.
Thank you so much.

Ive truely learned something from that post. About the 'game' and how to think.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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