"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey, I have a problem of geting attached to the girls I get with any tips on how to distance yourself emotionly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dillan.J.Dove said:
Hey, I have a problem of geting attached to the girls I get with any tips on how to distance yourself emotionly.
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Well,bascially the only way to distance yourself emotionally is to distance yourself physically.


If you approach a girl and start a sexual relationship with her,with the majority of girls,you WILL have to spend time with them OUTSIDE OF THE BEDROOM.


You'll have to do this,because if you don't ,the girl will start to feel like a slvt.



She'll want to spend time with you just so her anti-slvt defense won't be activated.




And if you're around a person for any length of time,you'll start to develop an affection for them.




The problem with trying to be unattached is that although a girl may be "hot" and you want to have sex with her,the more you're around her,the more you'll see past her "hotness" and view her as an actual person.




And if she's nice and has a cool personality,you'll actually like her being around you,in addition to being turned on by her attractiveness.




You really didn't give a whole lot to go on here. I don't know if you meant attached to girls you just met,girls you just sleep with from time to time,or what the deal is.





I suppose if you're seeing like 5 to 6 girls all at the same time that might make it easier to be less attached,but then again that coincides with what I originally said about not being around a girl physically too much.





It really just boils down to this:if you repeatedly have sex with a girl,and repeatedly see and spend time with her OUTSIDE the bedroom,YOU WILL BECOME ATTACHED.....PERIOD.
 
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Thanks for the advice. The scene right now is that i was with 3 girls and i just needed to know how to settle down and give my attention to one. But i got attached to all of them in diffrent ways. only if they were up for a 4-way relationship i got the lovin
 
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