Need a little advice please

[spread_love]

After coming back from a great wedding on Saturday, I headed back to a friend's flat and spent some time with him chatting and getting blazed, on my way out, I heard a voice call out my name from another room and say oh my god,It is you It was a girl I haven't seen for close to 10 years, and someone I have known since 1990.

We chatted for hours and had a smoke and cups of tea, moved some of her studio into her room blah blah blah.. anyway before I left she suggested that I should come over for a cooked dinner and said she would text me about it, she texted me today and I think she was disappointed that I said I couldn't make it the night she said as I have something else on as she sent back a text with the word next in capitals.

So we haven't made a date yet, the thing is I like her (always have) and she is single, but I really do not want to be in the friends zone with her, any tips on what I should do here please?.

 

[bluemanson]

well i think you should just make a move for her so she doesnt think of you like a friend. and if she agreed that you can come cook for her at her place, i think that is good.

 

[DJDamage]

If you are invited to a cooked dinner, that is great.

You already know that you ain't going to be spending money on her food and your food. Also your are already in her place! no need to try to bring her to yours or hope she asks you to come over to hers.

All you need to bring is some cheap wine and a DVD. You should tell her that you would love a cooked dinner another time if you can't make it this time.

 

[spread_love]

any more advice is appreciated, I have decided not to contact her and see if she contacts me,(so I appear busy) good idea or not?

 

[spread_love]

We finally settled on a date, next week, I can't work out if she wants me over for dinner because she digs me or just because we are old friends catching up, I have been out of the dating game for a while, so it's well... new to me (again), generally if a girl invites you over for dinner, that she is cooking, then surely that means something right?.

any help is appreciated