Need a lil help/advice

[Chamber36]

I don't go clubbing anymore so I'm not meeting a lot of new chicks.

I met a cool one at the local coffee shop though. I was initially just laid back. She turns out to be pretty cool personality-wise and quite charming. She is 26 and she has a boyfriend, but she was sorta vaguely flirting with me yesterday at the shop. She kept looking at me with frequent short glances, she came closer to me and touched my back(to show me something from a story), and she also came closer to me to show me a game on her phone. She also casually complained towards another chick how all men cheat(so I'm guessing her boyfriend cheats??). She also is quite honest about the fact she is unemployed but gets plenty of cash from her boyfriend.

She also (and this might be a red flag) told me another time how she was abused when she was younger. I seem to be able to get her to open up pretty easily.

I would love to bone her. There is a ton of sexual tension. She always keeps looking in my eyes in with a fvck face.... Like she is expecting me to do something...

What am I gonna do?

 

[European-DJ]

Obvious, do something - invite her over!

If she is, as you say, in a constant sexual state the just do it.

Earlier I was always preaching how wrong it is to fvck girls with boyfriend, but you know what? If it isn't you doing it, some other guy will.

Go for it, and keep us updated!

 

[Chamber36]

Alright well the sexual tension is still there. It kind of dissipated until she cought me checking out her ass a few days ago, which gave me an immediate hard-on, lol. I also mentioned there's a new female moving in with me.

Sitting next to her yesterday I also got a quick little hard-on, lol. I bet I am making her vagina moist, lol. She also gets real giggly and happy around me too, which I can appreciate. For a second yesterday her face was about 1-2 inches from mine. I can tell she is diggin me.

We are part of the same social group now though, so I am kinda scared there'd be too much evil eye on me if I did anything with her.

I'm glad the sexual tension has remained though. I seem to be doing the job right.

I want to invite her to my place for dinner, but I think that's too played out. It'd be better to go to the gym with her, keep our activities "good-hearted".

Help me figure this out if you've ever experienced something like this.

 

[Chamber36]

Still getting massive IOI's. Sparingly dealing out some IOI's aswell. She gave me another semi the last time we talked. This time I held eye-contact the entire time.

I got that same vibe as u get when u bring a chick home and sit her on your bed, when they look towards you, I got that exact vibe from this chick in the coffee shop - Meaning: I could go in for the kill.

The only problem is secluding her from everyone else. I don't know how I could get her alone...

 

[iamnobody]

Make her walk with you somewhere around the coffee shop area, tell her there's something cool she should see (there's always something cool/funny/etc). Once you're walking with her escalate.

 

[Chamber36]

Well dudes, she broke up with her boyfriend. I don't have to worry about that anymore. I think we can openly flirt a little bit more now. Still, when she flirts with me, some other guys (who she's known for years) roll their eyes at her. I don't care.

When she told me she broke up with her BF I was a little bit confused. Decided to try and show empathy/understanding though I was sensing some slight scrutiny. I was planning to make my move on her that day. She gave me a chance to make a weak attempt, which made me nervous. Decided not to ask and was a but upset afterwards.

I avoided the coffeeshop, but today my spidey-senses told me she would be there, so I went and she was there. I didn't say much to her for the first hour or so, as she was doing her usual FriendZone Gossip hour. I just wait for her to get over that, then just join the conversation and give her a mischievous look - searching for reciprocation. She told me I should do modeling again, but when she growled at me I almost got another semi. She also kinda showed me her ass again(crossing legs and leaning away), in those wonderful tights she wears.

Also, I think she was on the brink of inviting me over for dinner (whether it was a joke or not) but she didn't because of our friend who is jealous.

I can't remember ever taking part in such a drawn-out seduction. It's taking for ever.

By now I am so close I can almost shamelessly ask her to come to my place, or that she invite me to her place for dinner. Now that she's single my conscience is clear and I can just make my advances without worrying about anyone's reputation or feelings. So I will keep my eyes on the prize.

 

[Skyline]

Red: Me

She also casually complained towards another chick how all men cheat(so I'm guessing her boyfriend cheats??). She also is quite honest about the fact she is unemployed but gets plenty of cash from her boyfriend.
UHMMMMMMMMMMM.... Gold digger? She's probably dating an AFC/Beta. Using him for money, poor guy.

She also (and this might be a red flag) told me another time how she was abused when she was younger. I seem to be able to get her to open up pretty easily.
Oh look low self-esteem too, yes that's a big red flag. The one's that have a "great" personality and are "charming" are usually the ones who suffer from ASPD/BPD/HPD/NPD, they're manipulative, attractive/charming, and get you "close" by telling you personal information early.

I would love to bone her. There is a ton of sexual tension. She always keeps looking in my eyes in with a fvck face.... Like she is expecting me to do something...
I hope thats all you intend to do for your sake

I see her as more of a ONS or FB material.. Using her boyfriend for money is just low, plus she's unemployed which makes it even worse.

-Don't get your hopes up and get attached or you have a high chance of getting burned.

 

[Chamber36]

ya she was dating an AFC/Beta and using him for money, and being quite blatant about it. I know she got nice phones, clothes, watches etc from him, now she broke up with him and probably didn't give him back anything.

I was planning on just fvcking her on the side a few times before they got married to be honest. I don't have any cash to give her anyway so that's not a big danger for me, don't worry.

You are right about her opening up early being part of a personality disorder. My mom has the same thing... She says she tells people personal information fast in order to get empathy. Manipulation, I say.

Either way, this girl has sex appeal, and I am gonna keep barking up that tree, as long as it is green and luscious.