"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ebey11

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Me: You and I are going skating friday, ill pick you up at 7
Her: Ya I think I could do that
Me: Haha not good enough, I need a definite yes
Her: Why's that?

Suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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joey2times

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"Because I got 2 other girls who want to go with me, but I thought I'd make it your luck night"
 

skirtChaser

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texts are gay

re; can I call you now?


and get right to the point
stop the charades
 

DonJuan11

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because I have an exclusive stick, I don't share it with the world
 

mintxx

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because i like to be a definite guy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ebey11

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I went with "cuz I said so" and she replied with "your such a dork"
 

moto

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skirtChaser said:
texts are gay

re; can I call you now?


and get right to the point
stop the charades
I wouldn't ask her can i call you now. Just do it
 

moto

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ebey11 said:
I went with "cuz I said so" and she replied with "your such a dork"
lol....I would have probably said that also if I didnt know anything better. I like the other line about there are 2 girls waiting and you want to make it her lucky night. Or that your a definite person.

But did she actually give you a definite answer?
 

ebey11

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not yet, im thinkin to maybe go with the 2 other girls line now but not sure.
 

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Me: You and I are going skating friday, ill pick you up at 7
Her: Ya I think I could do that
Me: Haha not good enough, I need a definite yes
Her: Why's that?
Me: So I can get used to hearing you say yes all night long.
Her: :eek:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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moto

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^^ that would have got the same response in my opinion.

She would have said haha your a dork.

Either way she didnt give a definite yes.

BUt i really think she wants to go with you
 
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