"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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gray_fox_9

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Hey guys,
So I've been using the line lately on girls that they aren't my type or I'm not interested in them. What's a good response some of you guys have used when they ask,"why not?" I try to think of something clever but most of the time I draw a blank. Thanks in advance for the help!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrGold

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'Because you dont meet the criteria'... in a firm yet polite way. Then try to friends zone it.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Tell her that her feet are too big. Maybe if she had an operation to reduce them would help but you can't promise anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ask her:

"What do YOU say to guys who ask "why not" when you're not interested??"

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gray_fox_9

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Thanks guys. All good responses. Last night I used this one on a short girl," because I like my girls about 6 inches taller." LOL......Keep them coming.
 
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