need a good neg hit for a girl who wants to see me more and more

[BobFuest]

so this possible LTR wants to see me all the time now but i know in truth that is just going to bore her. She probably just wants to shift the power in her favor. Anyone got any good neg hits i can use to get out of seeing her. i was thinking something like "oh cant go a day without me huh?" or something.. what do you think? I am really hungover so I cant think of anything real good to blow her off with.

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

There's no need for neg hitting. If you don't want to see her tell her that or give her those famous lines we all here "I'm busy". Sooner or later she'll get the subtle hint.

If you don't want this chick then stop flirting and tell her. Leading her on is wrong.

Because this...

so this possible LTR wants to see me all the time now but i know in truth that is just going to bore her.

Is just a cop-out for I'm not really ready for a serious LTR.

She's getting close to 30 where her looks are fading things are saggin and her choices of grade A choice is running slim.

Not saying girl close to 30 or up ain't hot shoot I’ve seen some that are hotter then some 20 somethin year olds. But not every chick ages well and they know time is running out and its time to settle down soon.

If you want her stop playing games.

 

[BobFuest]

maybe i stated this wrong. I really like this girl. i would like her to be an LTR but at the same time I dont want to become boring and predictable or too available. that is all i am saying. She calls me almost everyday and says "come hangout with me today" or "come play with me tonight" and i would love to but too much of a good thing always leads to trouble..

 

[-=Ice-T=-]

Are you banging this girl?

 

[BobFuest]

Originally posted by -=Ice-T=-
Are you banging this girl?

what do think "play" means sh1t, she wants it more then i do. everyday, every night, in the morning.. its hard to keep up (get it? )

 

[lordson]

yeah mate, im in the EXACT same position as you, well, that was a week ago. saw her 5/7 days (average 5 hours), we talked 7/7 days (average 1.5 hours)

i used to think that maybe shell get bored of what we do,which was not much apart from watchign half a movie, and then going into my bedroom

but somebody here gave me good advice, that you jsut have to keep "dating" her, dont stop trying because you think youve already got her hooked

keep doing fun dates, neg hits, c&f, kino, EC and all tha bs just like when you were trying to get her to go out with you

and the occasional relaxtion day at each other's houses is also in good order too, and i found that my IL went up heaps again, and her's seem to go up alot too

 

[organizedconfusion]

Originally posted by BobFuest
maybe i stated this wrong. I really like this girl. i would like her to be an LTR but at the same time I dont want to become boring and predictable or too available. that is all i am saying. She calls me almost everyday and says "come hangout with me today" or "come play with me tonight" and i would love to but too much of a good thing always leads to trouble..

i always use this cycle for these type of girls-
plan a "superdate" and do all sort of crazy and fun things.
then don't talk to her for 3-5 days.
leaves messages saying "hi" and that you'll talk to her
soon. Don't pick up on her threads.
just keep on with the "just calling to say hi"
or been thinking of you can't wait to see you
and nothing more.
if she has caller ID call when you know she's not home
so when she see's the ### she'll freak.

in the middle of the week suprise her at her house just to
see whats up , but then limit it to only a 5 minute visit
but look sharp.

it's cycling periods of fun & excitment and then anticiaption
and missing you when you are not there.
not knowing when the next encounter will be builds
a ton of anticipation and desire.

make her miss you,think about you and want you more by
not being around all the time.it'll drive her nuts!
unpredictability and being spontanious keeps
things exciting.

i do this all the time. not just to girls but everyone in general,
it keeps my time seem valuable and it keeps people at a
distance when they want to become closer-thus keeping things
more interesting instead of falling into the same boring
routines.