"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need a Good Lower Ab Exercise

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G'day

I'm in the process of cutting and bulking up and putting quite alot of focus of my midriff area; it's a great way to improve general core stability (useful for the rugby I play) as much as anything else. One problem I've encountered, however, is that while I find my upper and middle ab muscles easy to workout, with weighted situps and crunches for the most part, I find it dificult to work my lower abs. It's gotten to the point where my upper abs are quite visible, my middle abs slightly less so, but my lower abs barely visible, and only then when I tense. What exercise would you reccomend to stop my stomach looking oddly...disproportiante :p ?

Cheers
Adam
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hanging leg raises
Squats
Deadlifts
 

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The ab wheel helps with mine.
 

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leg raises. also, when doing any other core movements pay attention to keeping your entire ab wall under tension. but keep in mind that the lower part already be just as developed as the rest, but the lowest are the hardest to reveal -- bodyfat, bloating and anything else will obscure them first.

don't be fooled by 'burn'--just b/c you feel it in the upper ab wall doesn't necessarily mean you're working that part any harder.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So is there any need in switching around ab exercises? I'm just wondering if I might aswell just stick to the good 'ole weighted situps. What about static exercises? Are they primarily for endurance or do they help make visible muscle too?

Thanks for all the advice:)
 

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Kevin Levrone Challenge - 100 reps non-stop with 200 lbs on cable crunches using the rope.

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