"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need a good, inexpensive red wine

STR8UP

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I'm going to pick up a couple of bottles to have around anyway, but i just found out she doesn't even drink wine anymore.

Her only request was "something coconutty". That should be easy :up:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Deep Dish

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STR8UP said:
I'm buying it for someone who is staying with me for a couple of days.
Oh wait, hold on, I just noticed the "someone who is staying with me for a couple of days". That's the not-your-fiance with whom you have past sexual relations and whom misconstrued your offer of her staying at any number of your properties as an invite to crash at your place (and cook you breakfast), no? Do we see where things are going? ;)
 

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Deep Dish said:
Oh wait, hold on, I just noticed the "someone who is staying with me for a couple of days". That's the not-your-fiance with whom you have past sexual relations and whom misconstrued your offer of her staying at any number of your properties as an invite to crash at your place (and cook you breakfast), no? Do we see where things are going? ;)
:yes:
 

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Mad Dog 20/20 "Purple Rain" flavor

$3 a fifth and it gets you drunk as fauk!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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