"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackDragon

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ok I just brought a 70lb heavy bag and 16oz gloves. Im ready to start hitting the bag real soon to get my money's worth. Anyone know a good workout plan I could do so I could start to lose this weight :)
If I follow that eating guide on the Cutting post and do some cardio exercise like boxing, jumping rope, and running, how long do you think it will take for me to lose 30 pounds. Right now I weight 205.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shadow boxing: (punching in the air)

3 min Jab
3 min Cross
3 min Uppercut

Rest 1 min

3 min hook
6 min various combos

Rest 1 min

9 min various combos

All the while, make sure you are practicing footwork to.

For the heavy bag workout do 5, 5 minute rounds, all out, combinations.

If you have never boxed before, take some lessons to learn how to punch right to avoid injury.

Now for the other stuff:

work your self up to 500 crunches a day, 100 pushups in 80 seconds, and 3 sets 60 reps doing pullovers, with a 35 lb dumbell. This will build your endurance, and get you cut, and fit. When working yourself up to this level, do it slowly, start with only 60 crunches a day, 40 pushups, and 3 sets of 30 with the pullovers.

And yeah, don't forget about running, and skipping rope.

This will hopefully get you started.

and before you start your workout, warm up!!!!!! I cannot stress this enough.
 

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Yeap...follow DJ Jeff's advice...also lose the gloves...they are heavy and will make you tired alot quicker...I do however recommend gettting some wrist wraps....make sure you put them on tight...after hitting the bag for the first time your wrists will probably be a little sore...don't worry this is normal....do some knuckle pushups...to strengthen your wrists....after a few weeks...they shouldn't hurt at all....

-DJLiquid
 

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so it is safe to not use the gloves? I dont want hurt my hands or anything. In that case, I can get my money back I hope :)
Thanks Jeff, sounds like a pretty good work out except the push up part. Dont think I can do that many in a short time. Doing this workout 3 times a week is ok right?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You want to start off with gloves untill you start hitting the bag right. 3 times a week is fine.
 

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ehh, Tae Bo?

I had a couple videos when I was younger and I think they were great.
 

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Tae bo is shyte.

If you want to learn some combos and punches, try taking a few classes at a boxing gym or kickboxing dojo. You can learn some moves, then practice at home. The atmosphere is really good at those places- high energy, and people don't f-around- they're there to box and workout.

For doing it on your own, take DJ Jeff's advice.

And don't forget to stretch out *all* your muscles before and after boxing. It'll kill your sides, back and arms if you don't.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I can really get used to this work out. Only thing about it is that when Im done, Im done. I am so freaking tired for a few hours :)
 

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Just go as hard as you can for a minute or two and then take a rest. Then go hard again for another minute or two and then take a rest. Go until you feel fatigued.
 

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Originally posted by BlackDragon
I can really get used to this work out. Only thing about it is that when Im done, Im done. I am so freaking tired for a few hours :)
That's a GOOD sing. your working yourself. awesome.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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